Are your kids headed off to a weekend getaway after finishing up their school year? Or perhaps, they are going to spend a weekend with their grandparents?
Either way, parents should seize every opportunity to unwind, relax and channel the youthful energy of their days before they had children.
All parents work tirelessly and devotedly to give their children the best of everything, dedicating every waking minute to their little ones’ health and wellbeing.
This weekend, you need to make time for self-care, romance, and unpretentious fun, even if it involves lying on the couch all day amidst an ocean of empty takeout boxes and crisp packets. If you’re running low on ideas, our round-up will give you all the inspiration you need.
1. Mission: Date Night
When was the last time you and your partner dressed to the nines and enjoyed an elaborate date night with expensive wine and fine dining? This weekend, surprise your partner with a romantic experience that aligns with your interests as a couple. Some couples enjoy sampling new restaurants and hitting the clubs, while others prefer exclusive opera shows or theatrical performances.
Perhaps, you and your partner would prefer a home-cooked meal and binge-watching a crime documentary on Netflix. Date night isn’t about planning a pretentious evening that will leave you more exhausted than you already feel. It’s about spending time with your partner, being attentive, and indulging in activities you struggle to make time for as parents.
2. Self-Pampering: Spa Day
A mother of two will appreciate nothing more than a spa day when her only chore is to relax and be pampered. We suggest taking your partner on board with this activity and booking a couples massage session to unwind together.
Imagine a seasoned masseuse kneading out the horrid knots in your back and shoulders with gentle yet firm hands. Doesn’t it sound divinely relaxing? You can plan your spa day with your partner or your friends, but either way, don’t deny yourself this much-needed pampering.
3. Binge Gaming Sessions
Here’s one thing all dads miss the most from their pre-parenting days: binge gaming without a care in the world. It’s hard to indulge in one’s passion for gaming when your day begins with dropping the kids at school and ends with a bedtime story. This weekend, allow yourself to indulge in your love for multi-player role-playing games or log on to a live casino to play all of your favorite online casino games with your partner.
The online gaming experience has improved dramatically in the last few years, becoming much more immersive and interactive. If you’ve lost touch with gaming lately, you’ll be surprised at the realistic visuals and interactive gameplays offered in online casinos. You can transform the living room into your man cave, stock up on your favorite beer and junk food, and turn into a gaming warrior for the weekend.
4. A Weekend Getaway
Traveling with kids is much more hectic than managing a streamlined routine at home. There’s much to consider, such as their meals, safety, hygiene, and the constant fright of losing them in an unknown destination. If your kids are away for the weekend, why not plan a fun weekend getaway with your partner or friends?
Are there any nearby destinations, retreats, or national parks you’ve been dying to visit? Plan a short weekend getaway to revel in the glories of Mother Nature and relax while watching the waves crash against the sandy shores. Or perhaps, you’d prefer a lavish adventure at a luxury resort, sipping mimosas in your sexiest swimsuit?
Final Thoughts
It’s natural for parents to feel guilty while making plans that don’t involve their children. Remember, your child needs a happy and healthy parent more than anything. And if you’re perpetually exhausted and overwhelmed by the chaos, your parenting game is bound to get affected. This weekend, do something special for you and your partner. Seize this opportunity to unwind and let go of your parenting duties to indulge in some reckless fun.