Now, we just had our annual family reunion barbeque and there were so many people who were not there; that generation have died and gone. My father is ill and in his last few days and hes the last one of his family, his brothers and sisters have gone, my mother has one sister left and you dont realise that it has slowly gotten carved away and you begin to think Wow, now Im the aunt sitting around playing cards. when I used to be one of the kids watching the aunts.
So a lot of the album is about that, and where you are in your life, I am in the middle of my life and it just sneaks up on you. I have my nephew who plays bass in the band and its awfully funny to have him there as Im the aunt and hes the nephew! Nothing makes me feel less rock and roll than when he says Auntie Eileen, should I do a bass solo now?
Where did the album title come from?
The album titles comes from a book I was reading: For One More Day, by Detroit author Mitch Albom, had an opening quote which read: The Dead sit at our tables long after they have gone. and the book was about getting just one more day with your dead mother.
Even when were sat around making fun of each other in the garden, you still feel like those people who have gone are still around you. I think the older you get, the more those people pile up, and you do end up surrounded by ghosts.
Who do you look up to on the music scene?
I would have loved to have seen Leonard Cohen, I couldnt get tickets, but were never in the same country at the time! The review Im reading about him are so impressive because theyre talking about how passionate and into it he is and I would love to be able to get into my seventies and for people to say; my god, she really meant it! and to be able to mean a song that you wrote 30 years ago and still be able to deliver that successfully. But I do really love Neil Diamond; hes just my kind of thing. He isnt ripping it out of his soul anymore these days.
If you could work with anyone, alive or dead, who would it be?
Do I only get to pick one? Theres so many, let me have one alive and one dead! [FemaleFirst: Okay] Well dead it would be Elvis of course! Who wouldnt want to work with Elvis?!
Alive - I really like Ethan Johns production, I have been wanting to work with him for a while, and he has worked with Ryan Adams and Kings of Leon.
Whats next for you?
Ive got this really extensive, long tour coming up, so were going to be out for a few months, its very exciting, well be doing the UK and Italy again, which I really love, I do really well in Italy because I have been so many times. Im going to Sardinia and Prague too, which, despite the fact that Ive done so much touring, are places Ive always seemed to miss out. Im really excited because this band I have now theyre just incredible and Im really excited to play with them every night.
We ask everyone we interview to come up with a question for the next person we interview....and MTVs Rickie Haywood Williams wants to know; Have you ever licked the top of a square battery and how old were you?
I have! I use those in my tuner and its one of those things I have to do and I hate it! I hate that feeling! But something even funnier is that my nephew actually likes it, so when I need to test a battery I just walk over to him and put it on his tongue.
And what would you like to ask my next interviewee?
Which member of the band spends the longest in front of the mirror?
Watch this space to find out which of The Shapeshifters spends the longest in front of the mirror!
FemaleFirst - Ruth Harrison