Small objects help to complete a room
It's the small details that make clothes an outfit, the same goes for a house too - they turn it into a home. A new survey has found that British women are more concerned with making their home picture perfect as opposed to themseleves.
The survey, conducted by online retailer isme.com, found that women love their homes so much that 44 per cent prefer to spend time relaxing in their own four walls than with their family. The average 50+ lady now forks out nearly £600-a-year on soft furnishing items to make her property stand out, nearly double what she splurges on making herself look good.
Nearly three quarters of fifty somethings spend 10 hours a month shopping for their home and one in five admit hitting homewares shops for 20 hours a month – averaging 45 minutes per day.
Adult psychologist Susan Quilliam comments: "The survey clearly shows the way women's interests change as they pass through various life stages. In our twenties, we love clothes, friends and travel. In our 30s we may start nest building and get into interior decor, but that soon gets overtaken by focus on our children which lasts through our 40s.
“Then, when kids fly the nest, we 50+ women start to reclaim our own domestic space – and fascinatingly, with age, there are biochemical changes which mean we want to reclaim our own emotional space too. That may explain why the survey suggests we hang back from spending too much time with others.
Nearly one in five say they are fanatical about furnishings purely to keep up with house-proud pals and 15 per cent say emulating interiors design TV shows motivate them to update their decor. However, for the majority, not having anything else to concentrate on and boredom prompted them to spend time, money and effort on their bricks and mortar.
With this amount of dedication, homes belonging to 50+ women should be at the height of soft furnishings fashion, but, according to the survey, 70 per cent don’t have a clue about the latest interior design trends and one in five describe their style as ‘dated’. Nearly one in five admit to still buying items for a family home that they don’t need in their current lifestage.
A further 38 per cent admit to keeping their child’s bedroom exactly the same after they have moved out as they had no clue what to do with it.
Susan continues: “After decades of demand from family, whether we're single or still partnered, we want our own living area, we want to put our own stamp on that area and we have the time, money and resources to do it. That's why we get a sudden renewal of interest in homemaking – and why we want to retreat to that home more than ever before in our lives. It's not that we don't care for our family – it's that now they're gone we can concentrate on creating the beautiful surroundings that we deserve!"
The findings also revealed that a third say they are inspired by homes magazines and TV shows with 24 per cent enthused by classic styling. Julia Kendell, interior designer and DIY SOS presenter, explains: “It’s encouraging to see that so many women are inspired to update their homes, but when it comes to knowing where to start, it seems they are floundering. More mature women feel settled in their homes but a number of empty nesters find their decor just isn’t them anymore, perhaps reflecting family life rather than who they are now.”
Here Julia gives her top tips for interior design: “A great place to start when updating your home is with a classic, soft contemporary theme, de-clutter to give yourself space to breathe, and choose a colour palette that inspires you. If you want to feel energized use bright and warm tones, for a restful atmosphere choose muted, cooler hues and for rejuvenation create a scheme using this year’s yellow shades mixed with fresh neutrals.
“To kick-start inspiration for a room-scheme create a mood board of all the things you love; your passions and interests, magazine clippings and tactile elements to create the start of a design that reflects your personality. Take inspiration from magazines and brochures to have confidence in combining colours you haven’t decorated with before. Your newly organized home should provide you with the space and stimulation to tackle new hobbies and long held ambitions.”
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