If you dream about being a hermit- you may be withdrawing from your responsibilities or the people in your life.

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Image courtesy of Pixabay

It might be time to face your problems head on as hiding from them won’t solve them.

If you are pulling away from a loved one- ask yourself why- is it something that can be addressed together? Do you need to revive your relationship? Or is it something you need to tackle on your own?

Often people who withdraw are those who feel they need to find themselves- do you need to discover who you really are? To come to terms with your failures and contemplate what to do next?

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You may crave for peace and quiet but rarely get it if your life is filled with work and family. Perhaps you need to carve out some ‘me time’ or go away for a while to get some well needed space to think.  

Perhaps you are feeling lonely right now and you need to make an effort to see family and friends. You yearn to be more sociable so make the first move if others aren’t taking the lead.

On the other hand, you may have been bitten by an unfaithful friend lately- are reluctant to trust another just yet and would rather be on your own.

If you were a hermit at home- this indicates your selfless nature- you don’t want to burden others with your problems.

It could also mean that you disagree strongly with society as a whole. You may hold beliefs that don’t align with society at large and it’s making you feel outnumbered. Honing this in- perhaps you feel that members of your family or friendship group are ganging up on you because your morals and priorities don’t gel with theirs.

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They love it when plans fall through- If someone cancels last minute or the weather is too extreme- you can literally see the joy in their face because they don’t have to get dressed and be sociable... to read more click HERE 


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