Best friend wants sex?

[Oreo]

This is kinda awkward...

I am a 19 yr old male. My female friend, "N", is making all sorts of advances on me and I am unsure if she wants sex or not. Here are the problems:
1) She is a virgin.
2) We never dated; just kissed and tounge action. She now has a boyfriend (11 months strong), but continues to bring up sex/BJ's all the time, and I mean all the time.
3) We are formerly high-ranking members of a military youth-oriented organization and that was why we never slept together before, we didn't want it to be awkward, see each other 4-5 times a week.
I am not a virgin, lost it when I was 15 and it wasn't great, but the second time was
Also, we are extremely close friends, I buy her lingerie, she hooks me up with BJ-happy girls (I kid you not). She calls me "babe" and has been since like early 2002...again, if she wants to I will; I am just unsure if she is teasing or not. I need to know, because I see her this Friday.
Help please. I am usually pretty confident, sure...but I am confused on this one...

[MaxtheGaul]

Oh you should definitely go for it. Think of her as a f**k buddy. Have sex with her whenever you both want but be free to have other relationships. She should tell her b/f that she has a f/b and explain that you are not an emotional threat otherwise he is liekly to get seriously pissed off. Having a great female friend who is not your g/f but who you can also have great sex with is fantastic and I think everyone should have one. Sounds like you are a lucky lad.

[Nynaeve]

She now has a boyfriend (11 months strong)

That's the only reason i say NO! If she wants you more than him, she has to dump him first. Or he has to agree to it.

[justasista]

Just do it. You are 19 and not married, I see no problem. She has a boyfriend of 11 months but obviously feels more comfortable losing her virginity to you; her best friend. Just take precautions and lay down the guidlines so to speak. If it is something that will ruin your friendship, don't. She is hooking you up, and still wants to be with you, it doesn't seem she will grow jealous. Sounds to me that maybe she feels you will "teach" her as a friend, so she wont be so inexpierenced with her boyfriend.
Buying a female friend lingerie is a bit personal. Maybe she thinks you want the same thing, but scared to make the first move.

[MaxtheGaul]

Don't worry too much about Nynaeve's concerns. I think you'll find justasista is right, she may well want to have her first experiences with you so that she can be more confident with her b/f. The problem is not really with him more perhaps with you. You need to be able to cope with the fact that she may well have sex with you a few times and then start having sex with him regularly. Make sure that you can handle that, don't hold it against her and just be there for when she needs you like any good friend. That way you'll end up being friends for a long time and you'll probably still be sleeping with her (from time to time) when you're 50. Worked for me