my husband doesn't want it either

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my husband doesn't want it either

Postby t on Mon Jan 24, 2005 8:29 pm

my husband doesn't want sex as much anymore...the only differance is, we've been married for almost 2 years and we're only 22. it's kind of ironic because i was always the one too tired or had a headache or just "fell asleep" and all that changed, my sex drive went way up and i desired my husband, body mind and soul, more than ever! and wouldn't you know it that his sex drive went way down and well, we haven't had sex in a week! usually he wanted it every day or every other. now, he wants wa nice blow job and a thank you very much. he doesn't spend as much time with me and our 5 year old daughter, and is crabby usually, and best of all, when he's in a good mood for a few days we get along great, he finally said he wanted another baby, blah blah blah blah blah! well now he's screwed it all up and has no interest in sex...what's a girl to do?!

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Re: my husband doesn't want it either

Postby thomas on Mon Jan 24, 2005 11:14 pm

t wrote:my husband doesn't want sex as much anymore...the only differance is, we've been married for almost 2 years and we're only 22. it's kind of ironic because i was always the one too tired or had a headache or just "fell asleep" and all that changed, my sex drive went way up and i desired my husband, body mind and soul, more than ever! and wouldn't you know it that his sex drive went way down and well, we haven't had sex in a week! usually he wanted it every day or every other. now, he wants wa nice blow job and a thank you very much. he doesn't spend as much time with me and our 5 year old daughter, and is crabby usually, and best of all, when he's in a good mood for a few days we get along great, he finally said he wanted another baby, blah blah blah blah blah! well now he's screwed it all up and has no interest in sex...what's a girl to do?!
Have you asked him what the problem is,sometimes after the few years of marriage this happens,have you tried different techniques for instance.

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Postby Donny on Tue Jan 25, 2005 7:27 pm

:lol: stimulate him. :lol: What turns him on??, what are his preferences. Use smell, sight and sounds to stimulate him.start with a slow back rub, then to the balls. seduce hium, wear next to nothing except perfume, .
low lights, romantic music, :wink:
Most men are turned on by a woman moaning during orgasm, helping or just watching.
I hate to be crude, but the smell of pussy turns most men on. also the sight of it under a dress or slip.. men are voyeurs, so just pleasure yourself in front of him, maybe this will work,,

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Postby Cinderella on Tue Jan 25, 2005 7:43 pm

but it's only been a week, don't stress over this, do you own thing.


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