Insecurity

[Starfish]

I`ve been out for a little over 15 years now, and it seems that so many lesbians are insecure about their relationships.
I mean, I`ve been in situations where,I`ve talked to a female,just to have a decent conversation and her partner will come along, and swear up and down,that I`m trying to put the make on her.
Can`t anyone just have friends,anymore?

[Cazzie]

Not qualified long enough to give my personal viewpoint, but my partner says that "lesbians are lying, cheating, promiscuous and in general, morally questionable"

Made me laugh, but it would seem that as we dont have the social expectation or pressure to stay in relationships 'until death do we part' and are not conditioned to stay in destructive relationships as there is no stigma attached to being divorced (given no marriage etc) We will probably have a few life partners in our life time, and I imagine when you are in a happy and monogamous relationship, you might be more protective of it..

Just my thoughts... as I say only been out for 1 year so am certainly no expert.

[Guest]

Not qualified long enough to give my personal viewpoint, but my partner says that "lesbians are lying, cheating, promiscuous and in general, morally questionable"

Made me laugh, but it would seem that as we dont have the social expectation or pressure to stay in relationships 'until death do we part' and are not conditioned to stay in destructive relationships as there is no stigma attached to being divorced (given no marriage etc) We will probably have a few life partners in our life time, and I imagine when you are in a happy and monogamous relationship, you might be more protective of it..

Just my thoughts... as I say only been out for 1 year so am certainly no expert.

You are a lesbian and are in a relationship where your partner says "lesbians are lying, cheating, promiscuous and in general, morally questionable" ?