Need some advice please!

Queenbee · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 13

So, I'm in second year University and I live off campus. I have no car so I don't get to go to school for any of the parties and stuff...Thus I don't know too many people on campus, only other off campus students. To add to it, I'm also really shy. So to the point, There's this guy that I've been checking out since last year...He's been in a few of my classes and every time I see him my stomach just flips. I know absolutly nothing about this guy but I obviously really want to meet him. I think he wants to meet me too as he's always looking my way as well...Any personal stories or advise on how I should go about meeting this guy? Keep in mind that I'm extremely shy...

hi_there · You Go Girl (100+ Posts) Joined: 12 Jan 2005 Posts: 171

Stop being shy. lol

Seriously, wouldn't it be better to start every relationship with open, honest and courageous communication?

Queenbee · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 13

Easier said than done! lol...I don't even know if he's got a girlfriend...You know, what if he just laughs and walks away? How would I approach him anyways?

hi_there · You Go Girl (100+ Posts) Joined: 12 Jan 2005 Posts: 171

Nothing worthwhile is ever easy but practice does help!

How about just walking up and saying "Hi there. I find you a bit interesting and I think I'd like to know more about you." Isn't that the truth? (And not over-committing.)

As to "What If"s, extreme scenario's aren't too likely (which is why they are extreme.) Even in the worst case, not only would you not have done anything wrong but you actually would have done it right!

mostirreverent · Posted: Mon Jan 24, 2005 5:20 am Post subject:

Wear a tight white shirt w/o a bra:)

Smile the next time he looks your way and don’t avert your eyes. Or go over to him and use a really cheesy pick up line that guys in bad movies use. Make sure he knows you are being funny. If he lacks a sense of humor, than F him.

Queenbee · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 13

Thanks for the advice...the last one sounds good lol...In one of our classes together we have a tutorial coming up...In those we have smaller group sizes and assignments of sorts...I have a feeling he would sign up for the same one s me because the other two are at night and for some reason I know that he plays hockey at night...So if he's in the same as me I'll make my move then! I'll have to find a tight white shirt, eh? Very Happy

lol