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[becky]

hi in a newby
great board it is realy nice to see that people arn't afraid of opening up and talking about awqward issues ( for once) without it being realy sleezy.
Im asking for advice/ help im 26 a proffesional and i am i a relationship with a man and have been for 5 years we are realy happy but recentrly i have been fantasizing about other women , i am a fan of Anastacia and saw hew live last year immidiately after i had the best sex ever with my boyfriend. Ever since that night i have been looking at other women in a whole different way sexualy and it is driving me crazy am i straight bi , lesbian ??? all of my mates are straigth so i cant talk to them .
i have told my boyfriend he thinks its great (he would) and says if i want to explore go for it . so i thought i would love to go to Amsterdam even if just to watch a show . so we are going next month , i have watched some girl on girl porn and it realy tuns me on (and him) my boyfriend says it is better to be honest rather than sneak around . i wish i had someone to talk to, im not sure if i do want 2 take it further if i want him there or if it will be better on my own, and the cercumstances about the first time go to a bar, try the net or see if anyone takes my fancy in Amsterdam LOL arrrrrrrrrrrrr any ideas girls.
thanks
becky

[lapin]

[...] and it is driving me crazy am i straight bi , lesbian ??? all of my mates are straigth so i cant talk to them .

Very few people are purely homosexual or heterosexual; think of it more as a line between the two along which people sit at various places between the two. Some people drift along the line over time too.

It's nothing to worry about

It's a shame your mates sound like they are not open minded enough to talk about it with them

i have told my boyfriend he thinks its great (he would) and says if i want to explore go for it . so i thought i would love to go to Amsterdam even if just to watch a show . so we are going next month

That's great - enjoy!

i have watched some girl on girl porn and it realy tuns me on (and him) my boyfriend says it is better to be honest rather than sneak around .

ABSOLUTELY. Exploring it WITH him is a great thing to do.

i wish i had someone to talk to, im not sure if i do want 2 take it further if i want him there or if it will be better on my own, and the cercumstances about the first time go to a bar, try the net or see if anyone takes my fancy in Amsterdam LOL arrrrrrrrrrrrr any ideas girls.

Well, plenty of people to talk to on here Becky

The great thing about the anonimity of the board is that you do not need to feel at all awkward about opening up here

Lapin

[Guest]

to Lapin and all
thank you for your reply you have re-assurred me especialy about the occasianally crossing the line , i feel like i have suppressed alot of my feelings for far too long ,due to bad relationships and not being surrounded by open minded people .
I am finaly relieved that i can talk about liking women and not be ashamed that even thinking about a same sex experience is turning me on and that for a long time i have wanted to go for it .
how did you guys have your first experience?
what was it like ?

thanx becky

[ajolie2]

hi ya luv

it is def a good idea to talk to ur bloke i do it all the time he loves it when i talk about girls

still keep considering a 3some but not sure as i do get jealous and dont know if it would work

shame about ur mates mine were like that untill i just came out with it after a while i think they sort of knew as i go on and on about angelina jolie all the time. both of the mates i said it too first are both really straight but one just assumed it meant i fancied her bless her eh no! and the other just thought it was pretty funny 3yrs it took me to be totally honest about it now even my bro knows i couldnt care less now its who i am and my patner doesnt mind so hey.

[becky]

Hi hun


"still keep considering a 3some but not sure as i do get jealous and dont know if it would work"

we are in the same dilema god i fantasize about touching , kissing , licking giving and recieving oral sex ect
but when it comes to me thinking about what i would feel comfortable with him doing to the other girl i get jealous but he is being realy sweet and saying that he is there for me aswell as the other girl to fulfill our fantasise so im in control
have you had your first experience yet (girl on girl)? not part of a 3some
becky