Posted: Sat Jan 08, 2005 4:24 pm Post subject: Im not sure
Whassup ladies... i'm new to this, but i'm kinda getting the hang of it. I'm kidna confused on something, and i need advice. Okay... I have a boyfriend ... he and i have been dating for 4 years. He's in the military and is on active duty... while he was away for quite sometime... i met this female... i've been knowing her for almost 9 months or more, and i kinda sorta got into a relationship with her...you know...making her my "gurlfriend". We've been dating now for 2months on the 11th. I love her so much. She is almost more to me than he is. I can't see myself loosing her. I know we've only been dating for 2 months, but i've been actually knowing her for 9 so... you know. Anyway, she knows about this guy, but she doesnt know that he's still my boyfriend. I told her that we broke up because we actually did, but some kinda way we wound up getting back together and I just never told her about the make-up... Anyway... couple months went by...that's when the relationship thing happened with me and her. I really do wanna be with this gurl. She has shown me so many things that he hasnt even thought of. It's not the sex because I never even had to sex with her so... I know this has to be love. My parents dont approve of me being lesbian/bi (whateva) so I wouldnt be really happy if i was actually be with her. My parents love this guy... he's sweet, cute, charming, but just not what i want right now. I've fallen head over heels for this gurl and I dont know what to do. There is so much more to this story, but I'm pretty sure you guys are all confused by now so I'mma just go ahead and pause right hea... see what type of response I get... then i'll finish up. Thanx for listening/reading
Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2005 7:52 pm Post subject: Re: Im not sure
Rainbow_Star wrote:
Anyway, she knows about this guy, but she doesnt know that he's still my boyfriend. I told her that we broke up because we actually did, but some kinda way we wound up getting back together and I just never told her about the make-up...
You need to resolve this.
Talk to her. Find out what she would think about you being with him too.
If she's cool to share - hey, it's suddenly Xmas again - you can have the best of both worlds maybe (depending how HE feels about it).
If she's not - then you will at least know NOW that you have a difficult decision to make.
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It's not the sex because I never even had to sex with her so... I know this has to be love.
YOU might be convinced that this is love - but how does SHE feel?
I don't want to bring you down or anything, but what if SHE just thinks of you as a good pal?
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My parents dont approve of me being lesbian/bi (whateva) so I wouldnt be really happy if i was actually be with her. My parents love this guy... he's sweet, cute, charming, but just not what i want right now.
Is this YOUR life, or THEIRS?
It's a real shame that in this day & age some people will not accept & love their children for what they are and who they are - including their sexual orientation. One would have thought that them being HAPPY would be enough, but apparently not.
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- you can have the best of both worlds maybe (depending how HE feels about it).
