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What is bisexual to you?

Postby Tanboi on Tue Jan 04, 2005 2:58 pm

I have met bisexual women who have said that they like men or women; some who have said they like anyone regardless of gender; and a hell of a lot who say they already have a man in their life so just want a woman for fun. I tend to get the idea that many bisexual women use the term very loosely to label themselves because they think it is more acceptable to be bisexual than gay.

I realise this isnt everybody, but I wonder how bisexual women see themselves in terms of what bi means to them.

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what is bisexual to you

Postby Lena on Tue Jan 04, 2005 5:31 pm

Hi , Good question . I am technically a bisexual woman but as I get older ( I'm 24 ) the label stuff means less and less . From experience I know you can love members of both genders and also enjoy sex with both men and women . I'm in a monogamous relationship with another woman that I never want to end but I'm sure at some point in the future for the fun of it and to satisfy our own bisexual drive we'll sport F*** with some guy or guys .Many women say they are bi but from what I have seen that really means they are bi-curious . I think we will see more and more women experiment and also see not as many as those experimenting but still more women practicing a bisexual lifestyle .My girlfriend says first time stories for most women will soon include tales of the first time you were with a guy as well as the first time you did another woman .Guys will have to deal with hearing from their girlfriends about not only old boyfriends but also old girlfriends or at least stories about one-night stands with another woman .L.

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Re: what is bisexual to you

Postby NO.7412 on Thu Jan 06, 2005 10:56 am

Lena wrote:Guys will have to deal with hearing from their girlfriends about not only old boyfriends but also old girlfriends or at least stories about one-night stands with another woman .L.
I would not, if my girlfriend even utters the "B" word I would Dump her faster then you could Phathem.

PS.also why did my first post Get deleted.

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Re: What is bisexual to you?

Postby Guest on Fri Jan 07, 2005 1:26 am

Tanboi wrote:I have met bisexual women who have said that they like men or women; some who have said they like anyone regardless of gender


Man,woman,transgender and hermaphrodite,or what are you getting at ?

and a hell of a lot who say they already have a man in their life so just want a woman for fun. I tend to get the idea that many bisexual women use the term very loosely to label themselves because they think it is more acceptable to be bisexual than gay.


If they have a man in their life and want a relationship,of whatever kind,with a woman,why would they call themselves gay to begin with ? That wouldn't be the right definition,would it.Gay,or homosexual,is being only attracted to one gender,namely ones own gender.

Bisexuals are attracted to both genders,but some may be more attracted to the one gender,rather than the other,and some will want a longterm relationship,whilst the other might want a fling.I think the only thing that can be fully defined,is being attracted to both genders.The
specifics,however,vary.

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Re: what is bisexual to you

Postby Guest on Fri Jan 07, 2005 1:28 am

Lena wrote:Many women say they are bi but from what I have seen that really means they are bi-curious .

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Re: what is bisexual to you

Postby Guest on Tue Jan 11, 2005 12:40 am

NO.7412 wrote:
Lena wrote:Guys will have to deal with hearing from their girlfriends about not only old boyfriends but also old girlfriends or at least stories about one-night stands with another woman .L.
I would not, if my girlfriend even utters the "B" word I would Dump her faster then you could Phathem.


Im sure if you were put in the situation you would react very differently to what you think.

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Re: what is bisexual to you

Postby NO.7412 on Tue Jan 11, 2005 3:00 pm

. wrote:
NO.7412 wrote:
Lena wrote:Guys will have to deal with hearing from their girlfriends about not only old boyfriends but also old girlfriends or at least stories about one-night stands with another woman .L.
I would not, if my girlfriend even utters the "B" word I would Dump her faster then you could Phathem.


Im sure if you were put in the situation you would react very differently to what you think.
Iv'e done it before..

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Postby jasper2411 on Tue Jan 11, 2005 3:41 pm

im bisexual and i am attracted to both gals and guys and been in a relations with both sexes. some people have different views on it though.
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To wear it on my body
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