Any ideals how I can split them up or Getting even?

ShouldI · Guest

Five weeks ago today (I’m 46) I bought a ring to give to the women I dated for 5 years. I went over to her home, which I was renting her. I met her two kids (16) and (19) to be a part of it.

She never came home that night… She met a man 5 days earlier, and moved in with him that night, and never came back she, left me a message, to not contact her kids… We just took three (two with the kids) wonderful vacations, one was 4 days, we stayed at a Bed & Breakfast for four days. I didn’t see it coming…

Now I am lost... I never knew how long a hour takes to pass… I have panic attacks that seem to last for ever.

~~I just found out yesterday she taken money also...

The only thing that make me feel better is thinking about getting even...
Anyone have any ideals how I can split them up?
Nothing dangerous, just very devious…

Thanks!

Guest · Posted: Tue Nov 09, 2004 11:16 pm Post subject:

Dont bother ,it will only be your focus of attention to the detriment of yourself.

Tell yourself that you deserve better, and as gutting as it is, try to forget it.

Mine got £84k off me but I've come to terms with being skint!

She is not deserving of your integrity.

Plus its not the kids fault.

what goes round comes round!!

Guest · Posted: Wed Nov 10, 2004 1:57 pm Post subject:

Get over it, find out what attracted this women to you and change it.

Careful with the kids. They deserve a rational adult.

Randy · Posted: Thu Nov 11, 2004 7:52 pm Post subject:

ShouldI,

Thought I'd try to give you a female perspective on this.

My advice would be to let her go. By trying to get revenge, you are still able to hold onto hope that she will come back to you. Unfortunately, this hope, is false hope (sorry if this seems harsh).

Hard as it is, I would try to rebuild your life without her in it. You sound too good for her. She obviously had little love or respect for you to be able to take off with someone else.

Sorry if you didn't want to hear this, but you need to start building a future for yourself. Who knows, in time you may find someone that you can trust and love and hopefully they will share these feelings with you.

Good luck and take care, R x

babes · Posted: Thu Nov 11, 2004 7:55 pm Post subject:

The best revenge for you is by getting over her, letting go of her and let her see what a better, more happier and successful person you have become!

Thats the sweetest revenge of all!

Very Happy

Randy · Posted: Thu Nov 11, 2004 8:09 pm Post subject:

ShouldI · Guest

Randy · Posted: Fri Nov 12, 2004 1:53 pm Post subject:

Guest · Posted: Fri Nov 12, 2004 11:07 pm Post subject:

Murder/Suicide.

GINGANINJA · Guest

Hi mate, i would not listen to any of that, she deserves everything that comes to her. Too many people get away with this S***, screwing peoples lives up and getting away with it. It is great to say that what goes around comes around but in real life it does not happen that way. Mine has ripped my life apart, taken everything along with my dignity, i would love to believe that she will get hers one day but most people just get away with it. If you know the ins and outs of her life, then sit down, look at it and use it in the best devious way possible. If they are sick enough to deal it then let them be brave enough to take it. Yes life is too short to be bitter but screw em, they deserve what they get,

me too · Guest

you could have a bouquet of flowers sent round to her new place,(make sure he is in at the time) u will have to pay cash for them to get them delivered so that they can't trace it, obviously put some a random guys name on the card, get the florist to write it out for u or she'll recognise the handwriting and put something like ...u were hot the other day babe can't wait till next time!

good luck