Just married, HELP!!!

claire162 · Guest

I got married 11 days ago to my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years, the problem is that we haven't had sex yet!!! We had plenty of sex before we were married (hence having 3 children!!) but since we tied the knot nothing!!!!

The first night i thought he was just tierd from the big day as was i, but as the days went on i have become more upset about it and dont wont to force sex on him in case that he really dosent want it.

He seems to think that i am being stupid and getting pissed off about nothing but most couples (correct me if im wrong) tend to have lots of sex just after marrage, dont they??

he tells me im beautifull, gorgeous, sexy and he loves me but that is as far as it goes, & i cant help thinking that he just cant bare to be intimate with me.

Any advice greatfully recieved.

Thanks guys, Liz

HtY · Guest

Well if he is unable to, or willfully does not consumate the marriage then it may be voidable!

You may not want to go that far, but it is interesting that the law requires you to have intercourse at least once to secure the marriage. So perhaps you should ask him if he wants to do that? His response could be very enlightening.

Scar · Guest

I would have a lot of sex if I was him.

Try to offer him Anal sex, he'll change his mind.

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bugrit · Posted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 5:06 pm Post subject:

Well, Scar, that's another thread diverted. Mad

Perhaps it's time for you to take your liking for Anal sex with boyish figures to a gay site? Rolling Eyes

joffa from down under · Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2004 1:23 am Post subject:

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Emily B · Guest

honbuns · Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 3:34 pm Post subject: Re: Just married, HELP!!!

[quote="Emily B"][quote="claire162"]. . . most couples . . . tend to have lots of sex just after marrage, dont they??[/quote]

Not if they've been living together for years beforehand![/quote]

Agree though it may also be a reaction to actually getting married, if the lead up to the marriage was stressfull then he may just need a bit of time to sort his head out.

wow look at me · Guest

You need to ignore idiots that dont want to help. The best thing i can suggest is to get someone to have the kids for the evening and go for a meal and talk things through with him. I done this with my girlfriend and its amazing what you can achieve when you talk. Im not old before my time or anything just found that it worked for me.

Guest · Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 3:11 pm Post subject: Re: Just married, HELP!!!

Spunkymagic · Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 4:01 pm Post subject: Re: Just married, HELP!!!

Guest · Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 11:17 pm Post subject:

Typical man. As soon as he hooks some gal he loses all interest in sex.