Only interested in me for sex?

[NYC-04]

Why is it that the blokes I go out with are only interested in me for sex?

Never wanting relationships!!!!! don't they think we need love and effection, met a lovely bloke said I cant have a relationship at the mo I said that's fine he was obviously hurting 2 months later!!!!

He ignores me half the time only calls me when wants ti come round late at nite for what!!!!!!! so 10mins ago I dumped him! now im wondering if I did the right thing what do you think?

[Julp]

YES YES YES if he does not want a relationship-ship him out. Sex for sex sake is down to you girl and should be on your terms. Would he like it if you rang him and said Hey Im horny get over now and fulfil me, especially if his wife answered the phone still she could pass on the message

[djdan9999@hotmail.com]

well i gota admit im seeing this girl who ive no intention of having a relationship with, (she has a b/f anyway) And she knows i mainly want sex. Shes a nice girl but i just dont think shes g/f material. But i TOLD her the truth from the start about what i want and what i dont.... which is what yr bloke shoud have done

regards

Dan

[daniella]

well,

even if u guys tell the truth "from the start", women are not that much in self control...
i once had an affair with someone who had told me the truth from the start, it went on for about a year...
and i fell in love with him and i wasn't able to throw him out because he was still very kind with me.
and it hurt so much!!!already that he would never go anywhere with me 'cause he didn't want nobody to see us together(and he was surely not ashamed of my looks!!!!), or that i could never meet his mom(but i was in his mom's house several times!!!), or that he never stayed overnight....
a lot of things...
in the end i was able to let him go...
what i should have done way earlier..

in the end he was hurt because after one year there are emotions between two people, but i guess, it was more his pride than anything elsae..
i was absolutely cured, i don't feel anything when i think of him...

and i will never ever let anyone do that to me again...
if a man tells me all he wants is sex, i say "then u can't have me"period.

so, u did´the right thing!!!!!

if women have sex with the same man for a longer period of time, most of us are getting emotional. that seems to be part of our nature...
we don't think logical, in these categories, "b/f-material" ....what's that?
anyways...daniella

[Bo]

so, u did´the right thing!!!!!

if women have sex with the same man for a longer period of time, most of us are getting emotional. that seems to be part of our nature...
we don't think logical, in these categories, "b/f-material" ....what's that?
anyways...daniella

I think we always think in this way, right from the start dont be surprised by you feelings. However I think you are correct and you did the right thing.