Why is it that ?

[SamBrown]

Why is it that you can go from being soooo close to someone one minute then the next they don't seem to want to know? Are you entitled to some kind of explanation or should you just accept that things change and thats that?

Its so frustrating when you have no way of contacting someone to find out why, or if there's some kind of problem? How do you know if its your fault or theirs?

[999Tina]

Why is it that you can go from being soooo close to someone one minute then the next they don't seem to want to know? Are you entitled to some kind of explanation or should you just accept that things change and thats that?

Its so frustrating when you have no way of contacting someone to find out why, or if there's some kind of problem? How do you know if its your fault or theirs?

I guess a lot of women can relate to this, it difficult when relationships are like this, trying to think whats the best thing to do. The way to would solve it is this way, would you do this to him?

[Stewart]

Men can relate to this a lot more than woman. Women can be sooooo moody that a man doesn't know what she is thinking half the time or what to do about it. The art of cutting people dead is a womans art. As for 'going off' someone, just look at which sex initiates divorce most of the time.

[SukiSoo]

I think it is important to remember what life was like when you were single. Some people - no matter how much they love someone - find it hard to change their lifestyle, and so they will have their close time with you, and then switch off (when I say single I dont mean they are out on the pull or anything). They like to remember the balance, which can frustrate people who can easily adapt. Remember, everyone is different - they probably dont even know they are doing it, or more to the point that it bothers you. Talk to them - dont be angry or emotional, just be rational. They may have a serious problem they didnt think they could come to you about. Or they might just be moody like us women at that time of the month! Hormones are to blame for everything!