. wrote:Men think about a whole host of sexual issues--------penis size, techique, foreplay, looks---------whether these make him a great at sex or even just good.
We don't usually see the ladies posting about this in relation to their own sexual performance. If you ladies worry about it, it must not be much. Do you think about your tightness, your movement, your responses to his thrusting? You do think about how your body looks, and that applies to be naked in bed also, I realise that. Yet the things directly connected to sex we don't see you posting about usually.
Men often carry the weight of the sex world on their shoulders, and it doesn't seem women do the same.
Yes of course I'm interested at being good at sex.
Most men and women would agree what makes a good lover is lack of hang ups.
No I don't worry about my tightness... my pelvic muscles are what they are... some men like tight, others like a lose feeling. I can't please everyone so tough!
Nor do I worry about my movements... I go with the flow, I aim to match his - unless I'm on top.
Women do worry about how the look - far too much. They feel the pressure of archiving the perfect body.
Hang-ups and worry I find is so unattractive, a confident lover makes a good lover. After all, it's pointless to master the moves to perfect technique with one partner, as the next will have totally different turn ons.
