I'm late 40's, hetero as can be, love the
panties, 24/7, wife is fine with it and even buys me some. I'm not fat but have stout thighs; Mr twiganberries get's ground in there unmercifully wearing any standard men's wear. Tight whites are the worst. I'm panty tested while doing the manly stuff like off roading, heavy equipment operation and riding the '45 HrleyWLA so the biker b#!*ch can shove her narrow opinion. I discovered
panties like others and love them all but for everyday wear here's some tricks; For the shy buyers; try "dollar stores" like Biglots and Sam's. 3 for $5 to 4 for $10 etc. and the cashiers don't think twice. The variety also changes. Try different sizes and types for best fit. It took me a while to get used to the idea of a size 8 (smaller "sexy" sizes don't fit right) but I've got 7s and 9s that fit well too; it just depends. I picked up some smaller "granny's" by accident that look like briefs or bikinis when stretched on while still roomy for the gear and less than a buck each. and anybody can sew some lace on Hane's, Bali's, Olgas or whatever a lot cheaper than the "sissy" stuff. My main criteria is tight enough leg openings that the stuff doesn't fall thru. I have some black plain waisted Hanes that a marker took care of the printed logos. It won't matter if they show. And an earlier comment about being cooler in
panties is absolutely true. I've tried expensive men's types, fancy and serious and they've all been a scam so far! I usually save the fancy stuff for home or if I'm at a meeting or conference; It cracks me up when I think about having a pink
Thong on while some stiff broad in a hillary-pantssuit is droning on... My
panties are hotter than her whole life. I have to admit, I miss when women wore dresses and perhaps part of this is being in control of a small part of feminine sexiness. As for the username "poufbuddy," my favorite time of the year is Mardi Gras in the French Quarter. Lots of girls dress Cabaret or Honkeytonk etc with corsets and short poufy skirts and crinolines etc. Ahhh girls being girly! My wife will ask them to bend over and take an upskirt picture (for me); they love it and comply! "Poufbunnys" dress up and put their photos on the internet, I'm satisfied just having a fetish for the stuff so I'm coining the term "poufbuddy." I'm not as dedicated as those other guys. Before anybody calls me gay, I may like a crinoline petticoat but I would never disgrace it by being seen in it; even by my wife. I've also never gotten the wig-makeup-shoe thing; but each to his own level of panty immersion!