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Postby Sofie on Tue Aug 09, 2005 12:25 pm

. wrote:Girls like to flirt when they fancy a guy...

if they play with their hair, touch their chest, rub their legs or if they touch their lips then you're definately in there!! :lol:


*doesn't do this*

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Postby Guest on Tue Aug 09, 2005 1:45 pm

what about guys flirting with girls...
( men flirting with woman)
:?

how do men flirt :?

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Postby juice on Tue Aug 09, 2005 2:08 pm

Guys flirt with their mouths, they come out with corny chat up lines and cheesy comments, they dont really use body language, only if they're shy then you can tell if a guy fancys a girl, they look deep into her eyes.. :roll:
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Postby DirectRabbit on Tue Aug 09, 2005 2:37 pm

I'm not shy, but I'd rather flirt with my eyes than make cheesy comments... I have never understood the use of chat-up lines... maybe other than to find a way to talk to someone, but if I have ever tried to use one (rarely) I find I can't think what to say next... I'd rather just get into a conversation then turn it in the direction I want, using my eyes and touches to tell the woman I am interested in her LOL

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Postby Vera on Tue Aug 09, 2005 2:51 pm

DirectRabbit wrote:I'm not shy, but I'd rather flirt with my eyes than make cheesy comments... I have never understood the use of chat-up lines... maybe other than to find a way to talk to someone, but if I have ever tried to use one (rarely) I find I can't think what to say next... I'd rather just get into a conversation then turn it in the direction I want, using my eyes and touches to tell the woman I am interested in her LOL



hahahahahahaha

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Postby Guest on Tue Aug 09, 2005 4:41 pm

im a girl having the same problem with a guy in my work,one minite he can be lovely to me next he just doesnt want to know or just acts stupid!how do you deal with a person like that?

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Postby Guest on Tue Aug 16, 2005 9:00 am

Dark glasses and a white stick? - only joking!!

it's all in the eyes..

look in to there eyes,

well that is what i know. :wink:

if there pupils enlarge then your IN. 8)

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Postby Guest on Tue Aug 16, 2005 9:03 am

Oroshi wrote:yeah that sound a bit later on.. but i actually like some one, but i dunno if she do also - dunno if she seeing some one...

thats the problem :lol:


THE EYES HAVE IT ....


It's often said that the eyes are the windows to the soul. This is especially true with a budding romance, as a woman's eyes will reflect her joy, her sincerity...and her suspicions. Does she maintain good eye contact with you when the two of you are talking or does her attention seem to wander off in search of something--or someone--more interesting to her? Not only will a woman's eyes communicate that she is an attentive audience to what you have to say but they will also convey that she is "reading" you as a prospective partner.

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Postby Vege on Mon Aug 22, 2005 12:46 pm

I don't get it. This guy that I like looks deep into my eyes and they sometimes lingers on my mouth. But the thing is, sometimes he is giving me all the attention in the world and at times he just avoids me and doesn't talk to me at all. Why does he do that?

Sometimes I think I'm imagining everything because I like him! sigh...

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Postby ChillingEcho on Wed Aug 24, 2005 6:30 pm

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Postby Guest on Wed Aug 24, 2005 6:34 pm

Signs are cool.... wrote:read this::::

Behavior

Steps:
1. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question. Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?

2. Is this person "accidentally" running into you in places where he or she knows you will be, such as at your desk? At the Laundromat on Tuesdays? At your brother's birthday party?

3. Make a note if he or she mentions future plans to spend time with you: "That band is coming to town soon. We should really get tickets."

4. Spend time alone together. Canceling other plans in order to be with you longer, or not finding excuses to leave, could be a sign of interest.

5. Has he or she been calling for random reasons, such as, "I was wondering if you knew what that pizza place down the street is called," followed by, "Are you hungry?"

6. Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something - and it's probably not your stamp collection.

7. Observe how the person acts around your friends - he or she might be extra friendly to your closest pals for a reason.


Body Language

Steps:
1. Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you?

2. See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same.

3. Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction.

4. Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek?

5. Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms.

6. Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?


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Postby Guest on Wed Aug 24, 2005 6:35 pm

_ networks

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Postby Guest on Wed Aug 24, 2005 6:35 pm

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Postby ChillingEcho on Wed Aug 24, 2005 7:01 pm

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does tis guy like me?

Postby dotz on Sat Sep 03, 2005 6:01 pm

hm... i wanna ask... if a guy:

1) touches u on the arm, pats ur shoulder wen talking to me
2) looks away, looks at me then looks away wen talking to me

does he like me?

:?

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