by Usquanigo on Mon Jul 14, 2008 6:02 pm
Lots of things.
Firstly, try to stop worrying about it. Just because you don't have as much to swing around doesn't mean you can't pleasure a woman and have fun. However, thinking that you can't or worrying about your size WILL sabotage any attemp to have a good shag.
Work on your kegels to get as hard as possible and to maintain for as long as possible (as well as controlling when you pop).
As others mentioned, learn about women's anatomy and work on developing oral and manual (ie, fingers) skills. Learn to focus on foreplay, and put her pleasure over and above your own, regardless of how you do it (this, emphasizing foreplay).
And probably over and above all, find someone who is attracted to you, with whom you have excellent chemistry. When a woman is very attracted, it really turns her on and that goes further than a few inches in size ever will.
That means you can't just be out to get laid. You have to be passionate and interested in her pleasure, you have to be geniune and sincere and interesting. (things you may never have associated with sex play into sex, so basically work on being more attractive overall and a great guy, and worry less about sex itself, but bear in mind what I said above)
All she would want is to have a wild sex with you!
