Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2008 3:51 pm Post subject: father fantasy
Ok so I'll get this out the way first: I think quite alot about my wife F****** other men, usually older (she's in her late 20's) - people at her job, her boss, women too. I guess it's because we have virtualy no sex life, I must like to imagine her being a slut. But what worries me a bit is that I like to think about her F****** her dad. And not just F****** either - proper french kissing and everything. Pretty nasty I know but it REALLY gets me off. It's interesting because I have absolute respect for her and love her and treat her well irl - is this my way of seeing her get debased?
I've noticed on this forum that not only do men often think about cuckolding, but also once or twice I think I have read of guys saying their wives have this fantasy and they are uneasy with it. Now, I'm not asking 'do all women want to F*** their dads' so I can then talk my wife into admitting it, but I think I just want to ask if it's true that some men have this fantasy about their wives and if women can sometimes think about it themselves - I guess I just want find out that although most people will find it pretty discusting, if I am the only one who likes it - because I feel bad for having these thoughts.
Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 12:58 pm Post subject: fantasy
Hi there,
As a woman, I can only speak for myself. I'm in my twenties and I have had this fantasy, but I would probably never admit it to anyone because of the taboo. It's not something that I would ever do in real life, but then again, most of my fantasies aren't...I think that we as a culture analyze our fantasies too much...they are just imagination, different parts of ourselves...sexuality is complex and your thoughts are yours alone, so enjoy your fantasies without guilt...whether or not you want to share them with your wife depends on her personality and preferences...
Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 1:29 pm Post subject: father fantasy
Instead of talking about your fantasy get her to tell you about hers.
I don't think you talk to your wife about sex thats why its boring for you and her.