my boyfriend ties me up when im asleep

skirtymum · Guest

I have been with my boyfriend for 15 years and love him to bits wehave a good sex life but for the past 2 years he gas tied me up whilst i am asleep, at first i loved it, but lately ive experienced new things, mainly a straight jacket suit, i am a heavy sleeper so dont notice him slipping me into the jacket. last month i woke up totaly trapped and blind folded.. at first all good but he left me for 34 hours, i lost it and panicked. also he has hidden all my trousers and making me to wear a tight pencil skirt,

i worried that one dauy he will leave me ied up

wickedwill · Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 1:08 pm Post subject: ties me up when i am asleep

At first I thought this was a bit of harmless fun but you need to try and find out exactly what he wants and how far he wants to go. You also need to protect ypurself being tied up without water for so long is very dangerous.
First talk to him and voice your concerns and tell him that it as gone too far.
I would say leave him but you probably wouldn't therefore you must find a friend who you trust and give them a key to your house. Get them to phone you each day to check you are ok if they get no reply after a couple of rings tell them they must call round and check you are ok.
Please take steps to safeguard yourself

Guest · Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 1:33 am Post subject:

I'd say leave him from the look of things its escalating and becoming more dangerous. And to me it doesn't sound like he's right in the head, leaving someone "you love" tied up for 34 hours is not normal thats torture.

agree! · Guest

Guest · Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2008 9:19 pm Post subject: This is dangerous

Nobody should ever be left restrained and unattended. What if your house/flat/appartment caught fire? What if there was a gas leak?

Basic safety precausions:

The use of a "safeword," or some clear way for the subject to indicate genuine distress and a wish to abort.
Never leaving a bound person alone.
Avoiding positions or restraints which may induce postural asphyxia.
Making sure that the subject changes positions at least once an hour (to avoid circulation problems).
Making sure that the subject can be released quickly in an emergency.
Avoiding restraints which impair breathing. (Gags or hoods which block the mouth can become asphyxial hazards if the subject vomits or the nose becomes otherwise blocked.)
Remaining sober; alcohol and drugs should be avoided.

He should follow these, or you should move on. Kinky fun is not worth your life. [/b]