BIG AGE GAP relationships?

g.giggling · Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 8:11 pm Post subject:

Relationships either work or they don't - based on the personalities of the people involved, chemistry and goodness knows what else. You love her, she loves you - that's all that matters. Just who, exactly, are you meant to be hurting anyway?

People will say - what will happen when you are 70, 80, etc. Probably the same things that happen with any other couple - that's what. If you love someone you love someone and you want to be with them - regardless of what other people say. The funny thing is that the majority of people out there don't care. You're both happy - where's the problem?

Also don't worry about whether the relationship is going to last. Many relationships fail for a variety of reasons - but surely not age. In fact, if you have been going over and over all this telling yourself that you really should "find someone more your own age" - then this relationship must be pretty strong or it would already have fallen apart.

By the way, I've been in a relationship with a 20 year age gap for ten years now. It is perfect and wonderful. We have a family and we couldn't be happier. Some people said it wouldn't last. Ironically it is their relationships that have failed while ours has grown stronger!

gg

bags · Guest

hi im 27 and my boyfriend is 50 we have been together for 5 years now ,love knows no age limits and patronising people assume that he cant get a woman whos 50 thasts why he chose me ,or i must be in it for the money ,if you love eachother then sod those narrow minded people who think they have the right to say who should and shouldnt be allowed to be in love im happy and in love so go 4 it hayley x

not until · Guest

most guys don't 'get real' until 30+, and some until 40+.
45+ yo men are best i think, but it seems

their dicks quit working in hi 50s. good thing is they like
eating us to fully satisfied and wanting more! Girl

MaxtheGaul · Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 4:52 pm Post subject:

You'll just have to pick up your men at 45 and then trade them in ten years later for a younger model. Very Happy

eXperienced · Guest

the older guys with eXperience eat better!
HuMANs can't compete with my "Rabbit" anyway! Girl

Guest · Posted: Fri May 23, 2008 10:01 am Post subject:

Guest · Posted: Fri May 23, 2008 2:38 pm Post subject:

Libby Ann · Guest

I have started dating a guy who is a lot older than me, I'm 26 and he is 52 I have no concerns with his age but I have just finished with my partner of 5 years... I know the first thing people reading this will jump to it this is a re- bound situction i can honestly say it is not before it got heavy this is something that was talked about as the last thing I want is to wish this never happened in a few months time... The concerns I have are more to do with other people and there views.. no children are invloved on either side with is good but i know what other people will think. I'm after him for money gains or to boost my postion as we work in the same place different department and from the other side maybe he is flattered at the interest from me. I know this should not be an issue deep down if people are unhappy it wouldnt change anything but I still like people to be happy for me. I just wanted to see if anyone had any advice over the way I should handle this. I have only told one mate who diagreed completly and views it as sick. The guy I'm seeing tends to think about stuff too much we have had some serious talked about children and other long term plans. I feel this is a bit to soon or as i never been in an age gap relationship before should these issues be hightlighted and is it normal? the fact we are only dating and are not classing each other as gf and bf should this make a difference? It is far too soon to be anything more than dating I want to try and see what happens day to day and enjoy it rather than worrying that maybe long term issues will result in this ending

MaxtheGaul · Posted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 7:22 am Post subject:

Then just date him! Other people will think what they will, but actually it's the way you behave together that will really matter. Our age gap is similar to yours. We've had some funny situations, but we are both so sure of our relationship (and it shows) that people accept it. I'm sure some people who have hardly met us think we're together for all the wrong reasons. Once they've seen how we are then that disappears pretty quickly.

I think from your perspective you need to have a relationship of equals (it can so easily go wrong either way with you too submissive, or him just trailing along behind you), and sexual compatibility is really important (much more so than if you were of similar age, because it is so easy for small problems here to be put on the "age" peg and quickly get out of hand). If the age gap is getting in the way of these then you probably can't make it work.

Guest Vince · Guest

helensmith5200 · Guest

I'm 36 y/o and my husband is 15 years old than me. Our first date is _ on an age-gap dating club AgelessOnly.c o m and now I have two babies. We are very satisfied with our current life.

TY V Much · Guest

mataa · Guest

I'm 13 and I currently have a huge crush on this dude who is 20 I know its not as big as a gap but i still find it as a gap linda xD

Passenger · Guest

Im replying to the age gap Guy yeah look Im 45 and shes 21 works really well we love eachother all I can say to you is love eachother its all that matters and as far as pitt falls well the same age marriages hold the record for divorces . Very Happy

foxy.26 · Guest

for the last 18months i have been in a relationship with a man i love with all my heart,no one has ever made me feel like he does. there are 40years between us,sound crazy i know