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Posted: Fri May 16, 2008 1:31 pm Post subject: Marriage proposal |
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Hi,
I'm 32 and living with my boyfriend. We've been together for two and a half years and I'm desperate for him to propose. He's just turned 29. He was against marriage, his parents had a messy divorce which he says isn't a factor but I think it is, that and the fact that he doesn't feel ready, both of which I understand but he knows how important marriage is to me and he seems to be coming around now, and talks about marriage more positively. When I mentioned getting engaged the other day, I was astounded when he said he's seen a ring he wants to buy me, but that he wants it to be a suprise so I'm to forget about it. The problem is that I'm completely obsessed with the idea, and I'm not convinced a proposal is as immenent as he's making out. Therefore I need some help to try and forget about it until he asks me, if he ever does. I know it sounds pathetic in this day and age to feel like this, but it's so important to me that I'm finding it impossible not to mention and I don't want to blow it. I'm just so excited that I've found him and love him so much that I want marry him. I've got a big family, a great job, tons of friends, loads going on in my life to distract me but for some reason this is consuming me. Please help! Thanks. |
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