Hi guys, i need your opinion....

[starry_eyes]

Right...

i been with my b/f nearly 2 years, and still find he looks at other girls when we are out. he says he doesnt realise he is doing it but it drives me mad!

Why do guys do this? is it cos your looking for another woman? or is it just in my head? he says he loves me v much blah blah blah and says im the sexiest girl hes ever seen soooo....


want to know is WHY do guys do this??

No sarcasm please!!

[Bushwalker]

Do you mean that you want us to believe that you, yourself, never look at other men (or women too, for that matter..) ??


You really do need to grow up, little girl..

[Guest]

We look because we like what we see, obviously.

It doesn't mean we are looking for another woman. There isn't any reason to take offence. His looking at a good-looking woman will make him hotter for you, in all liklihood.

It may be somewhat more likely for men to look than women, but I suspect that women, on the whole are just a bit more discreet. And I can tell you, women look all the time.

[noodles]

[drew]

[Salsito]

Yup its completely natural for a guy to look a other girls. It means apsolutely nothing, though obviously there are exceptions to the rule. Window shoping for the want of a better phrase doesnt hurt anyone and indeed I would say it was unhealthy if a guy suddenly found all other women unattractive just because they were in a relationship.

I wouldnt worry too much especially if everything else in the relationship is ok.

[KevSom]

Looking at other girls a lot doesn't usually mean we want another girl. It's a guy thing that we never want to miss an opportunity to check out a good looking girl. Don't worry, if you were that other girl, I'm sure he'd check you out and think how sexy you look.