Is There A Legal Reason...

[coolman]

you didn't answer my question. Did your FIRST patner make a good decision? Are you still with her?

no response? I'm glad you finally agree!

[coolman]

you didn't answer my question. Did your FIRST patner make a good decision? Are you still with her?

no response? I'm glad you finally agree!

Oh my god! I shut fred up! I shut fred up! I've never been so proud in my life, I shut fred up!

[Cambridge]

you didn't answer my question. Did your FIRST patner make a good decision? Are you still with her?

no response? I'm glad you finally agree!

Oh my god! I shut fred up! I shut fred up! I've never been so proud in my life, I shut fred up!

For that, you will be revered in history, coolman. We always seem willing to let hairy back yank a thread away, to become his next soapbox. Wasn’t this thread about Sharon’s question as to legal reasons why gay marriages cannot exist?

[coolman]

For that, you will be revered in history, coolman.

[Fred75]

I take it then you think her son had no right to expect her mother to be smart and chose men much more wisely then?

did your first partner choose wisely? Are you still with her, or did you leave her?

Now what makes you think you deserve any personal answer form me when you cant give an opinion yourself?

[coolman]

I take it then you think her son had no right to expect her mother to be smart and chose men much more wisely then?

did your first partner choose wisely? Are you still with her, or did you leave her?

Now what makes you think you deserve any personal answer form me when you cant give an opinion yourself?

when did I ever not answer you???

[The Colonel]

I take it then you think her son had no right to expect her mother to be smart and chose men much more wisely then?

did your first partner choose wisely? Are you still with her, or did you leave her?

Married 20 years now.

You are not the only one who has been married a long time.

I have too remember.

[Fred75]

I take it then you think her son had no right to expect her mother to be smart and chose men much more wisely then?

did your first partner choose wisely? Are you still with her, or did you leave her?

Now what makes you think you deserve any personal answer form me when you cant give an opinion yourself?

when did I ever not answer you???

Does a child have the right to expect his or her parent to chose wisely on their behalf?

[Fred75]

I take it then you think her son had no right to expect her mother to be smart and chose men much more wisely then?

did your first partner choose wisely? Are you still with her, or did you leave her?

Married 20 years now.

You are not the only one who has been married a long time.

I have too remember.

Remember??? Ya.. I know you have been married a long time. It's not like I knock you for that now do I?

[The Colonel]

I take it then you think her son had no right to expect her mother to be smart and chose men much more wisely then?

did your first partner choose wisely? Are you still with her, or did you leave her?

Married 20 years now.

You are not the only one who has been married a long time.

I have too remember.

Remember??? Ya.. I know you have been married a long time. It's not like I knock you for that now do I?

Blimey! That is a first!

[coolman]

I take it then you think her son had no right to expect her mother to be smart and chose men much more wisely then?

did your first partner choose wisely? Are you still with her, or did you leave her?

Now what makes you think you deserve any personal answer form me when you cant give an opinion yourself?

I don't think her son can expect her to be perfect.


did your first partner choose wisely? Are you still with her, or did you leave her?

[Fred75]

I take it then you think her son had no right to expect her mother to be smart and chose men much more wisely then?

did your first partner choose wisely? Are you still with her, or did you leave her?

Now what makes you think you deserve any personal answer form me when you cant give an opinion yourself?

I don't think her son can expect her to be perfect.

No ones perfect.
Point is... did she even take the right steps for her son?
Did she wait until she was older and more mature? NO
Did she have sex with a guy she had a commitment with? NO.
Did she date the guy for a few years to learn about him? NO.
Did she think of the consequences of those action with regard to the welfare of the child? NO.

Because of all those NO's... her son was deprived of even a decent chance of a loving home with his father in it.
So now the boy grows up with probably one of three philosophies...
Single parenting is OK because I was raised that way.
Or
F*** if I'm going to screw up my son's life by not choosing a partner wisely.
Or
Like so many women of single parents...Cynical to the whole family thing because it's a pile of S*** for the kids and never have kids that have to suffer as they did.

[coolman]

well you seem to have answered all of YOUR questions yourself. Where's the answer to my question?

did your first partner choose wisely? Are you still with her, or did you leave her?

[Fred75]

yes
yes
no

[coolman]

yes
yes
no

I don't believe you, but thank you for the answer anyway. If that were the truth, you would have shot right back with that. . .