wedding fright

[kath]

i am getting married next week am terribly nervous am scared i will wet my pants when walking up the isle is this normal has this happened before what can i do?

[Guest]

I wish I was here earlier...

To my knowladge this is normal. Also, the more people to reply to this will probably increase your confindence. Also befor I go one, grats! Back on topic... I can't suggest anything you can do. I do hope for one that you are ready for this. Do you merry out of fear, or children? Do you merry out of love or of lies? These questions you must have awnsered. 50% of the people who are married lie to them selves. They say sex can change after merriage? It is not the marriage, it is the people that convince themselves of this due to rumors.

You are one know, and soon for ever shall you seal this. Be careful and watch each others. In the first year you must be slow. Slow and steady may not always win the race but it will save you money... maybe not on car insurance tho.

Also, do not force anything on your lover in the first while of merriage (im talking first month or so) this can lead to great disasters. I have watched others crumble and I would not like to see you crumble.

PS: Make sure to get some head on the Honey moon if he wont give itt o you already.