Bi curious woman for Bi women.....

Joshalex · Guest

Hello all,

I'm lost right now. I really don't know what to think or how to feel.

Here is the situation. My gf and I have been together for 7 years. But last night she told me that she was bi-curious. It was so hard for her to say it. She hasn't told anyone. She is interested in maybe kissing another woman. You would think that I would be excited about that but I wasn't. I didn't freak out or anything, I just didn't know how to take this. She says that she is just interested and that she doesn't want a relationship. Just she is attracted to women. She says that she loves me and wants to be with me and that will never change.

But here is the problem for me. I believe that if you're in a committed relationship, you be with that person and no one else...physically or emotionally. She doesn't think that kissing another woman is considered cheating. I don't want her to just ignore this feeling and bottle it up. I could never ask her to be anything other than herself. But I'm scared.

If she does kiss a woman while out at a club or something then comes home and tells me what happened...i know in my heart that I will be hurt. I know she isn't trying to hurt me. But doesn't it mean that I wasn't enough? That I don't satisfy her? The thought of her being with anyone else regardless of gender hurts. Then what? What if she likes it. What then? Where will that lead? What if she wants more than just to kiss? What if the next step is sex? Then what? How am I supposed to deal with that? Isn't this considered cheating?

I just want everyone to know that I didn't flip out or anything. I listened and tried to understand. I was calm and asked questions. But something inside of me was so scared of this view on it. I mean....how am I supposed to feel about it? Should I be ok with it? She is a very honest person. She was always one to tell the truth no matter how much it hurts. She is not sure whats going to happen...she just says that she doesn't want to loose me. I also love her very much and I want to be with her. We have come such a long way together and I don't want to loose her.

zigzagprod · Guest

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Biatchy · Posted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 11:06 am Post subject:

Hi all
Just have to reply to this awful message...

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God, I'm just sick of hearing about these self-centerd,greedy,lazy,
spoiled housewives with there stupid lil Girl-Fetishis!!!!

YOU GOT MARRIED TO A MAN!!!!!!.......
CHANCES ARE YOU PUST FOR THE MARRAGE!!!!!....
AND NOW YOU WHAT A FLING!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!...
IF YOU WHANTED TO SCREW AROUND, MABY YOU SOUDN'T
HAVE HAD GOTTEN MARRIED!!!!

Obviously you arent getting any.....these comments/insults are uncalled for...
We are all adults sharing an experience...
This forum is for us to do and say what we want because sometimes you feel you are the only one...how wonderful to find out you are SO not alone...I am really happy to discover that theres so many of us bi-curious sexy gorgeous married/or with partner women that want that experience...

My husband cool about it and has told me to do it and enjoy it....
We have been together 19 years and sex is awesome but I still want to experience sex with a woman ( or few women at same time) and am going to make it happen...soon

It is not your place to judge, comment or insult us and your opinion doesnt matter...

Love to all those married ladies who feel like me....

Girlpower!!!!! lol
Biatchy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Brianna2 · Posted: Sat Dec 01, 2007 10:11 am Post subject: Bisexual involvement

My good lady had her first experioence with another woman some years ago whilst on holiday in Corfu. She "Fessed up" to it to me and I must admit it pissed me off at first, but after giving it some thought, I thought it must be ok, (a) because I didn,t feel "betrayed", (b) it must have been a needed release for her, and (c) it was obviously part of her sexual makeup, and there was nothing I could do about it, We let it lie for a the intervening period until fairly recently when she has told me quite openly that she would like to regain the sensations she had experienced previously. She told me that the whole involvement was so blindingly enervating for her, and that shec felt she had been in the throes of an everlasting orgasmic thrill, until the final convulsions hit her. She said she had cried bitterly when it was over, as though someone dear to her had died. I couldn,t get my head around that, but it seems she has an overwhelming need to rekindle those emotional feelings again, so who am I to say No!. We have been married for 30 years and have three grownup kids, and I dare to say we have been and still are, very happy. Anyone got any comments?, PM me, I,d be interseted to know.

mscurious · Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 3:40 pm Post subject:

Hey - I have been with men and women - I can definitely say that being with a woman is one of the sexiest things I have ever experienced and I will definitely be wanting more.

Turns me on just to think about it.

A man is great, don't get me wrong, but there's something totally different about being with a woman. Def gets me going! Lol xxxx

**Baby** · Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 4:15 pm Post subject:

well said and soooooo true

hi bi the way

mscurious · Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 11:19 am Post subject:

Hey 'Baby'

How's you??? xxxxx Smile

**Baby** · Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 9:25 pm Post subject:

im good thanks how are you xx

mscurious · Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 10:46 am Post subject:

I am good thanks.. Where are you from? x

**Baby** · Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 7:17 pm Post subject:

from N/E lincs babes, was in london last weekend tho

doliphin · Posted: Thu Feb 21, 2008 11:47 am Post subject:

hi there i told my boyfriend that i am bi and he said that i love me that way
from doliphin

elaine95 · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 05 Mar 2008 Posts: 1

You Know I thought that I was alone with these feelings I am glad there is a place where I can talk about them. It is great to know that there are women out there that feel the same.

doliphin · Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 10:11 am Post subject:

hi there me and my bf have been together for 13 years now and i am bi
from alice

tippytoes · Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 2:00 am Post subject:

Hi I am very new to this...single with 2 kids...more and more I think about being with another girl...don't know how I'm gonna go about it tho... I think about it all the time...had even thought about paying for it... but don't wanna go down that road....I'm not sure if I need someone experienced, or , if it was new to her also, that may be fun, finding our way round each other....confused and horny....!!!!