FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIPS

[jlynn]

Dear Homebody,

It seems your wife is indeed 'head of the household'. Personally, I think that's the way it should be , and I wish you much happiness. Please update us as to the day to day dynamics you experience.

Also, i'm curious as to how your relationship is 'awkward at times'? Would you prefer if your wife was not in charge? Does it make you uncomfortable?

best wishes

[Guest]

My husband is very happy being submissive to me.

[jlynn]

GUEST,

Please don't call him submissive...Doesn't it sound better to say he is 'compliant'?

[Guest]

Jlynn,
Yes i prefer that!either way i rule him

[Mels]

Buy The Mistress Manual

[Ms Stanley]

I have asked my wife to do the same thing. I told her that I would love for her to be the boss. I have showed her websites and bought her books but she is not interested until she got pregnant. We now have a 3 year old and a new girl on the way and my wife wants 2 more. I said no more. She now says that she wants to be the boss and has given me a long hard spanking to let me know who the boss is. The transition is not going real smooth she keeps going back and forth but she allows me to wear panties and she is starting to tell me what to do. When she was not in charge I came home tired ate dinner sat on the couch and was tired all evening till we went to bed. Now I come home make dinner, clean the house, do laundry and have all kinds of energy I really love our new life style it is moving very slowly and she sometimes wants to go back but I believe that in time I will be her happy maid.
Thanks

[petticoatfriend]

I would like to live in a truly female led relationship. Yes, women should be in charge. A loving husband should trust in an assertive wife´s lead,
take over a considerable part or even all of the household duties (as far as compatible with his work) and take her last name in the marriage.
Only partially I live in such a relationship, wishing we could realize more of it in future.
I am doing the bigger part of the housechores already because my wife comes home from work late in the evening. Shortly after we first met (before we married) she detected that I like skirts and dresses. She began to petticoat me (not forcibly because I enjoyed it myself, pushing her to do so) and there has been a considerable exchange of power in the bedroom since I have been taken by her by means of that toy a woman can use to penetrate her man. Thus she is gaining more control than ever before.
On the other hand I am still the higher earner and we failed to take her last name in the marriage, considering the irritations which would have troubled our parents and close relatives and friends as well.
When I´ll retire a few years from now (and she still has to work for some years to come) we have decided already that I´ll take over all housechores completely, becoming her male housewife. Under that circumstances, she told me, she would like to continue a full time job at the working place. We would like to go deeper into the matter meanwhile.
It would be nice to hear: has anybody some further proposals ?

Petticoatfriend

[homefarms]

My wife is in complete charge. That is not to say that she doesn`t ask my opinion sometimes, but it is understood that she makes the final decisions and that I will obey them. We are very happy. The idea that decisions can be made 50/50 is unrealistic in my opinion. It really is surprizingly easy to do as you are told! Because my wife has complete authority over me she is relaxed and free of the worries and insecurities a wife usually experiences in a traditional marriage. She says it is wonderful for her to know that I will always do as she tells me. Because of this she is very considerate of my welfare and happiness and is never unreasonanble in her instructions to me, although she can be quite demanding occasionally. This lifestyle makes both her and me very happy...and a happy wife equals a happy marriage.

["AdultRelations]

Why have none covered the Adult Activities area?
This is the Highest Priority of all for the male to grow, enhance, and maintain "logic centered" thinking in daily life.
Ladies: Just begin with an appetizer. When your guy gets hungry(shouldn't take long ):
Have him "eat at the Y" This is a Proven Method with 'sub'ject men from barely legal to long past retired ages.
Certainly many 'far off' think sites exist, however: It is NOT required(nor even need be considered) having men 'feminized' or otherwise humiliated, just as long as he is the pleasure provider 'slave', all else works itself out without incident or confrontation.
Suggest 'lets try something new', it will blosson from there.[/i]

[owk001200]

Of course Female led relationships are to be preferred. Females are naturally the superior gender and the male role is to respect, obey and to submit to them.

[xygote]

I just ran across this thread and noticed it's been running for a couple years. It is very interesting to note how the perspective of the posters has changed over the last couple years. The majority of the first posts were clearly anti-FLR, sometimes angrily so. As you move through the posts you can see more tolerance and acceptance and now many pro-FLR posts. I do think FLR is becoming an accepted relationship dynamic. Not, so much, because woman are superior, but because once society was allowed to accept that spouses could be equal it allowed individuals to be themselves. It is completely natural for one spouse to feel more comfortable in control. It would stand to reason that a successful courtship would pair a dominant person with someone who is more yielding.

My only desire would be that we could decouple the some of the femdom and kink from the FLR movement. As exciting as it may be in the bedroom it only gives fuel to those that would call the FLR lifestyle just a kinky male porn fetish.

[Guest]

Obesity

[Game 'Winners']

Right to it:
I cant imagine a better situation,
- than one where "Boss (in bedroom)
*Varies depending on:
'The moon, weather, who won a game,
whatever...
-As long as conrast, - or reverse happens at least occasionally:
-I think BOTH become
*Significantly More Sexually Oriented, &:
'That'; - in-turn leads to More Acivity which:
Is good for Both Genders,
-"Saves" boring rrelationships, & makes Both Genders More Acutely Aware of How Importent Sex IS, - as Part of a Healthy Life.
NOT n2 the other area`s switching positions` tho, Limited to Addult Activities.
In that narrow focused area: Females [i]Need Be More Assertive, at least ocasionally IMO.

WHO want to flip a coin? I get hHead!

[stephen9]

I have recently embarked into a FLR with my wife. I don't know where the idea came from! Its not like I had fantasized about it before. But now it just makes so much sense.

Some highlights:
I have surrendered all my income to her and offered to make that legally binding (if that is even possible). I am the principle wage earner, but now all the funds are treated as her private account. She has the option of giving me cash to spend on a weekly basis. She has taken away my bank cards and my credit cards. Surprisingly, she has accepted this arrangement fully, and a sense of entitlement that I absolutely love. Last week she chose to only give me half of the cash she usually gives me because I had done a poor job washing the dishes - some food left on one of the plates.

My wife has asked me to stop being poly and to be exclusive to her. As the last affair I had was painful to her, she has asked me to be abstinant for a period of three months. masturbation is alright - thankfully. She on the other hand is taking this time to explore nsa sex and is meeting with several discrete, sane lovers on a regular basis. Talking about a cuckold fetishist's dream come true!

She now has me doing at least an hour of extra work every day. I work 60 hour weeks but I spend my 'off hours' doing the dishes, the laundry, giving her massages. I cook all dinners and clean the kitchen.

Its strange- I never would have pegged myself for someone who would like this, but I feel great about it. Its as if I can totally relax into her mastery. I have no money or access to money (my paychecks are autodeposited into her private account now). I have no recourse to sex. And yet she is radiant, and more beautiful every day. To think that my service to her is part of this - which she says it is (she likes this arrangement a lot and has been very loving, minus sexual activity) feels so good.

My abstinence finishes on the summer solstice. I am so much looking forward to being able to service her physically. I don't identify with being a slave. More like a warrior who worships some goddess or priestess. I don't dig being degraded, but I LOVE being totally hers and being asked to raise myself up a notch, and serve our love in more ways than just sexual.

[no need read ^]

doesn't deserve thorough read

you're a nut-less kunt of a man, pretending to
be male which;
the DESPERATE for real MAN women will
*soon tire-of, and cut them Off.

What confused;
* excuse for male / female,
`weirdos` 'live' here!