when did you know

[SarahGirl]

Yes the board is VERY quiet today - just added a small snippet to the Librarian btw

[burscobabe]

send me a message if u want to chat anytime ?

[burscobabe]

Is that really u in the photo btw ?

[ladybijou]

whan i was in high school and we used to spemd afternoons rubbing together talking about boys... and then i realized that boys were NOT the only thing that turned me on

[hunnybunnygirl]

between 11 and about 16 it was all boys, sadly!

why sadly?, its the experiences in your life that makes you like you are now. And you made your choice from your experiences, only a good thing I think

Sadly because I think I missed out on the chance to get closer to at least one person, because I wasn't able to accept that I was attracted 'that way' to girls!

If you could do it over again every one ( or most of us ) will have done things different. Missed chances, those will keep comming back sometimes in your life but still those things do form who you are today.

Hi Nikko and Sarahgirl.
Sarah, I know exactly what you mean here. I too had same experiences so know the feelings of regret and missed opportunities at times but I have found the most amazing woman ever now who has changed my life forever and has made me see just how happy I can be although things are still mighty complicated but hey I wouldnt have met the most beautiful woman on earth if I hadnt been in this situaton....... maybe things do happen for a reason.....Hunny xx

[*Bambi*]

i suppose i have always liked both, even froma very young age

i lost my viginity to a girl first and guys came later, i'm in a relationship with a guy but if I do become single i'm not ruling anyone out

[cl]

I liked girls from an early age. I always caught myself looking at them and enjoying what i was seeing,. If a girl looked weaker or needed help I was like a Knight in shining armor and would help them....I was such a tom boy....funny though I look back at the kids pics I looked very feminine YET I acted more like a boy and the girls responded....

My first experiences with a boy was forced and molded a lot of me.....My first wanted kiss was with a girl at 12 and man I loved everything about it! the softness the gentleness......mmmm

I went on to be with a guy,,,,,,trying to be straight.....I hated the physical but we were best of friends....he wasnt right though and I got another one.....who I am now seperated from after 18 years of marriage....and it was not all bad...except for the abuse I should never have put up with! UGH I look back now and think if I would have just been brave enough to be me! ... I cant see me EVER being with a guy again!

I never enjoyed it like I do with a woman. I feel comfortable safe loved sexy......i am me with a woman....not willing or wanting to go back...besides if my gf (who i love and adore...) ever treated me badly I would know I can overcome it and there are other women out there for me........I am content with women.......they are AWESOME!!!!!

[LilJulie]

I was 11 when I first became attracted to other girls. I developed a crush on my then best friend who was a year older. Since then I have been mostly attracted to females

[Sarlud]

only once have I been in a real life situation where I found myself wanting to F*** a girl. I was staying over at a friends after a night out and sharing a sofa bed with another girl. I can remember lying there in the night wondering if she would enjoy it if I started touching her. I was SOOOoo horny! Other than that, it's just been the realisation as long as I can remember that I was not adverse to the thought of a bit of girl action!

[secretsally]

I was a bit of a tomboy. I far prefered playing football with the boys than laying around watching them and talking about them.

I had a lot of innocent crushes on girls, whilst at school but went out with boys. I was a late starter and didn't think about women physically until I was in my 30's but really I think I had started to think that way long before. I just had to accepted that side of myself.

[BeachBall]

From the very first, I think, my sexual attention was always focussed on girls not boys. I don't think I have EVER felt ANY sort of attraction towards a man.

I guess growing up in teh same house as my brother probably had a lot to do with that. LOL

[secretsally]

I guess growing up in teh same house as my brother probably had a lot to do with that. LOL

One wonders what you mean by this BB?!

Would you mind explaining?

[BeachBall]

Let's just say that my Big Brother wouldn't exactly be the marketing folk's first choice if they were looking for a prime example with which to advertise the concept of men!

[cireris]

I'm confused. i think i am straight. guys completly turn me on and i have had a few boy relationships. however when i was allot younger i used to worry that i liked girls. which is weird because at that age i didnt know about being lesbian and used to worry because i thought it meant that i should be a boy.

as i grew up i really dont think i fancied anyone properly untill i had my first proper crush on a boy.

now i'm into boys but theres a girl i've seen who i think i really fancy but i'm a bit confused as to weather i fancy her or if i juat adore her so much i wanna be her.

i dont think about men or women in particular when i touch myself its just an abstract thought of someone touching me, unless i'm thinking about the guy i'm involved with at the time.

sorry that all makes v little sense.

Basisically what i think i'm asking is do you guys think i sound as if i'm bysexual?

aslo how doi know if i fance this girl or just admore her?

[secretsally]

Hello Cireris

I would describe your feelings as bi-curious.

As for the feelings that you describe for this other woman...well, admiration is part of the fancying process. And hey its ok to fancy someone, male or female, it doesn't mean that you immediately have to interpret those feelings as sexual.

I mean the good old fashioned 'crush' on someone is a prime example of this. Give yourself a bit of a break and just enjoy what feeling you do have for her.