BIG AGE GAP relationships?

[elliott20]

I'd personally be more weary of what's going on in your work place. Gossip that gets out of control can destroy a man. So, I'm not sure what you intend to do about it, but I'd recommend you keep an eye on that.

Barring that though, you'd be surprised what an 18 year old might be envisioning for the future.

Whether or not that's going to be what she wants in 5 more years is a different situation all together. While I'd like to pretend as much as the next guy that age doesnt' matter at all, it COULD. Emotionally compatibability now does not always mean compatibility later. So, it's something that at some point you'll have to address with her. (especially if you're planning to go long term with her.)

[katie hull]

yes im 30 and my partner is 60 we have been together for 12 years now and have 2 chiuldren together he also has 2 children from a prvious relationship and they also live with us hes oldest being 23 and we have had problems in the past burt noe we are happy and have never got out of the honeymoon period and are still madly in love just dont think of age and if you do then you should not be together. be happy xxxx

[Guest]

yes im 30 and my partner is 60 we have been together for 12 years now and have 2 chiuldren together he also has 2 children from a prvious relationship and they also live with us hes oldest being 23 and we have had problems in the past burt noe we are happy and have never got out of the honeymoon period and are still madly in love just dont think of age and if you do then you should not be together. be happy xxxx

DIRTY OLD FART.

[Guest]

my gf is 14 yrs older than me. We are very happy, and approaching 10 yrs together.

if aint broke, then don't try to fix it

[sissy boy]

Mature women...now there's a groovy idea

Screw those that think they're old , it only means more MILF for me

[23]

am 23, my man is 46. has worked very well for a bit over 2 years. guys younger than 30 are waste of time asssholes

[Tys]

The only pitfall is that you'll be dead by the time she's ready to have babies. You better get your geriatric ass to the sperm bank right now, so she'll at least be able to drink your jizz and get pregnant when you're long gone.

You're welcome.

[Redgirl]

When I was 23, (I'm 38 now) I dated a man that was 50. And his son was 24. I was pretty mature for my age but even still, a think a woman is still wet cement in the 20's, still forming who she is. And after a while I could really feel the difference in our points of reference.

I would caution you to say, do not be in a rush to get married... really get to know each other and be very clear what each of you want in the future.

[emzi]

If it makes you both happy then go for it.

[blindfaith]

probably not the best forum to post on as there are a high number of young peeps on here who know everything about everything. Age is irrelevant if you go into an age gap relationship with your eyes wide open.

[Guest]

My husband is only 13 years older than me. He is 52, I'm 39. He still has a nice flat stomach and a pretty nice body. That little blue pill helps out a lot for you older guys sometimes too. I'd say the only thing that is beginning to bother me a bit is his skin! No matter what you do, your skin is going to get thin and soft and the wrinkles are going to set in. That shouldn't be a problem, and so far, it sure doesn't make me love him less, but heck, I have to tell you...sometimes I think about being with a younger man and feeling a bit of youth against my body.

I know how you feel my husband is 15 years older he's 60. I now have myself a boyfriend who is the same age as me we are very good together, although my husband does'nt like it. My husband was never very good at sex but we do include him in our love making sometimes be it in a submissive role. He drives us when we go out also takes care of all the every day things in our lives, keeping the house clean cooking meals for us when we stay at home and also doing the laundry. As he is retired it is not a problem for us as i still go to work and i also think it turns him on a bit when he is sleeping in the spare room and can hear us making love. I also find it a bit erotic with him serving us our meals and drinks when my lover stays over some nights, My advice is to have your younger man while you still can, and if your husband really love you he will want you to be happy and contented.

[SM]

I know how you feel my husband is 15 years older he's 60. I now have myself a boyfriend who is the same age as me we are very good together, although my husband does'nt like it. My husband was never very good at sex but we do include him in our love making sometimes be it in a submissive role. He drives us when we go out also takes care of all the every day things in our lives, keeping the house clean cooking meals for us when we stay at home and also doing the laundry. As he is retired it is not a problem for us as i still go to work and i also think it turns him on a bit when he is sleeping in the spare room and can hear us making love. I also find it a bit erotic with him serving us our meals and drinks when my lover stays over some nights, My advice is to have your younger man while you still can, and if your husband really love you he will want you to be happy and contented.

How can someone not be very good at sex, but not get better? Did you not point out the error of his ways? Or show him what good sex is?

[emzi]

I know how you feel my husband is 15 years older he's 60. I now have myself a boyfriend who is the same age as me we are very good together, although my husband does'nt like it. My husband was never very good at sex but we do include him in our love making sometimes be it in a submissive role. He drives us when we go out also takes care of all the every day things in our lives, keeping the house clean cooking meals for us when we stay at home and also doing the laundry. As he is retired it is not a problem for us as i still go to work and i also think it turns him on a bit when he is sleeping in the spare room and can hear us making love. I also find it a bit erotic with him serving us our meals and drinks when my lover stays over some nights, My advice is to have your younger man while you still can, and if your husband really love you he will want you to be happy and contented.

If I were your husband I'd have you divorced. Only insane people would find this behaviour normal.

[MaxtheGaul]

I'm a 29 year old bloke and have just started a relationship with an 18 year old. I was pretty much single for 3 years up to now. I found this thread . about for what people think about this sort of stuff.

My g/f was about the same age as yours when we first got together. We had a great time for about three months, and then she started to think about longer term things and decided that she hadn't lived enough to start settling down, particularly with someone a lot older.

I let her go for two years (I didn't want to do it, but now I'm glad I did) while she packed in more "living" than most people manage in ten years. We kept in touch all the time, but not as lovers. Then one day she decided she had done enough and that I really was the guy for her, and we have been together ever since (nearly 10 years now), and it's still as wonderful as it was at the beginning.

My advice is don't expect her to be looking for the same things that you are until she is well into her 20s. But keep close even if you are not actually dating if you want a long term relationship.

[Black_Sheep]

I'm actually in a similar situation Lambo... only I'm the younger female. I'm 28 he's 52, divorced with 3 daughters, one 22, one 27 & one 30. We met through work and only realised our feelings for one another when he resigned through stress.

The only problem I have is getting time to see him. Sometimes it's only once a fortnight . His daughters are very close to him since his wife left him for a younger man. Because of our jobs the only free time we have is generally a weekend but this is also when the daughters like to do things with their dad. Most of the time it's fine & we get to see each other, but sometimes they go camping or he has to go to his mums (now deceased) home town (which is 2 hrs away) to sort things out going on over there. It gets me down sometimes, but on the plus side, when I do get to see him it's like meeting someone for the first time and learning things about them all over again.

Anyways... enough about my problems. You go for it. As long as you are both comfortable with the age gap. I know someone who has been with their partner for 15 years - she's 35 now and he's 62. You go for it!