BIG AGE GAP relationships?

elliott20 · Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 2:22 pm Post subject:

I'd personally be more weary of what's going on in your work place. Gossip that gets out of control can destroy a man. So, I'm not sure what you intend to do about it, but I'd recommend you keep an eye on that.

Barring that though, you'd be surprised what an 18 year old might be envisioning for the future.

Whether or not that's going to be what she wants in 5 more years is a different situation all together. While I'd like to pretend as much as the next guy that age doesnt' matter at all, it COULD. Emotionally compatibability now does not always mean compatibility later. So, it's something that at some point you'll have to address with her. (especially if you're planning to go long term with her.)

katie hull · Guest

yes im 30 and my partner is 60 we have been together for 12 years now and have 2 chiuldren together he also has 2 children from a prvious relationship and they also live with us hes oldest being 23 and we have had problems in the past burt noe we are happy and have never got out of the honeymoon period and are still madly in love just dont think of age and if you do then you should not be together. be happy xxxx

Guest · Posted: Tue May 08, 2007 12:22 pm Post subject: Re: BIG AGE GAP relationships?

Guest · Posted: Thu May 10, 2007 2:30 pm Post subject:

my gf is 14 yrs older than me. We are very happy, and approaching 10 yrs together.

if aint broke, then don't try to fix it

sissy boy · Posted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 9:13 am Post subject:

Mature women...now there's a groovy idea Embarassed

Screw those that think they're old , it only means more MILF for me Laughing

23 · Guest

am 23, my man is 46. has worked very well for a bit over 2 years. guys younger than 30 are waste of time asssholes

Tys · Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 8:28 pm Post subject:

The only pitfall is that you'll be dead by the time she's ready to have babies. You better get your geriatric ass to the sperm bank right now, so she'll at least be able to drink your jizz and get pregnant when you're long gone.

You're welcome.

Redgirl · Posted: Thu Aug 16, 2007 10:17 pm Post subject:

When I was 23, (I'm 38 now) I dated a man that was 50. And his son was 24. I was pretty mature for my age but even still, a think a woman is still wet cement in the 20's, still forming who she is. And after a while I could really feel the difference in our points of reference.

I would caution you to say, do not be in a rush to get married... really get to know each other and be very clear what each of you want in the future.

emzi · Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 8:18 am Post subject:

If it makes you both happy then go for it. Wink

blindfaith · Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 9:01 am Post subject:

probably not the best forum to post on as there are a high number of young peeps on here who know everything about everything. Age is irrelevant if you go into an age gap relationship with your eyes wide open.

Guest · Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 5:05 pm Post subject:

SM · Posted: Sat Aug 18, 2007 1:19 pm Post subject:

emzi · Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2007 8:36 am Post subject:

MaxtheGaul · Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2007 10:17 am Post subject:

Black_Sheep · Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 5:12 pm Post subject:

I'm actually in a similar situation Lambo... only I'm the younger female. I'm 28 he's 52, divorced with 3 daughters, one 22, one 27 & one 30. We met through work and only realised our feelings for one another when he resigned through stress.

The only problem I have is getting time to see him. Sometimes it's only once a fortnight Sad

. His daughters are very close to him since his wife left him for a younger man. Because of our jobs the only free time we have is generally a weekend but this is also when the daughters like to do things with their dad. Most of the time it's fine & we get to see each other, but sometimes they go camping or he has to go to his mums (now deceased) home town (which is 2 hrs away) to sort things out going on over there. It gets me down sometimes, but on the plus side, when I do get to see him it's like meeting someone for the first time and learning things about them all over again.

Anyways... enough about my problems. You go for it. As long as you are both comfortable with the age gap. I know someone who has been with their partner for 15 years - she's 35 now and he's 62. You go for it!