help needed please

StraightCurious · Posted: Mon Apr 09, 2007 9:34 pm Post subject: help needed please

i have always identified as a lesbian but i am increasingly feeling serious urges towards men. i am fantasising about men and about sex with men. i have even become slightly addicted to porn, imagining myself in the place of the women in them.

has anyone any thoughts and opinions?

StraightCurious · Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2007 9:50 pm Post subject:

has noone got any advice for me?

Anita77 · You Go Girl (100+ Posts) Joined: 07 Feb 2007 Posts: 103

i say perhaps just go for it and make love with a man

Jennie79 · Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2007 6:37 am Post subject:

Hi,I'm Jennie and kind of new.
Don't really know what to tell you cus I'm in the opposite situation.
I'm straight and have been with my partner for 3 years and have children together but I am very bi-curious and fantasise alot about women.
I would say do what you want to do and what feels right.If you don't like it there's probably no real harm done!

BeachBall · Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 6:08 pm Post subject:

I reckon love is where you find it and what you make of it.

We only get one shot at life, so give it your best one! Just because you've always preferred the girls doesn't mean you always will. So if you want to go with a man for a bit, what's the problem, so long as you find yourself a good one.

(Alriiiiiight ... I think we may just have stumbled on the problem there. But you never know.)