I need help

[Revel]

I have just uncovered that my partner has been keeping some money from me now i am the major bread winner in this relationship and i have been putting every blood sweat etc into this partnership and i have now discovered this. she says its just happened and it was only for this things she did not want to ask me for, what should i do?

[Guest]

Actually, I think her answer is not necessarily off the mark. Plenty of women do this and have a secret stash. How did you find out? Does she not feel she can come to you for 'extras' due to a bad reaction?