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mutual masterbation

Postby ricfromvic on Thu Mar 29, 2007 7:04 am

Do any people here have sessions where you watch each other masterbate at the same time. I have asked my wife to participate but she declined.

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Postby versatile woman on Thu Mar 29, 2007 9:20 am

We play with ourselves in the company of the other regularly. :oops: It is not only fun to watch and show. :shock: The orgasms are so different to partner sex. :!:

We have a combination of sex and helping ourselves very often. If he wants to splatter my boobs or have his juice in my wide opened mouth for in for example, we both work with our own hands to get the best sensations. But mere solo sex without touching each other gives tremendous, special orgasms to me at least. :roll:
There is also no feeling of guilt to have some mast fun. :wink:

I can imagine, that your wife will overcome her inhibitions to have pelasure in a very common and natural way. Encourage her. Observing your arousal and with the help of some flattering remarks it shlould be no problem. :D

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Postby morty on Thu Mar 29, 2007 9:45 am

we usually W*** each other at the same time not ourselves :lol:


Its is a big turn on

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Postby MarriedMomAgain on Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:44 pm

Yes, and it is a huge turn on for me. I have no problem climaxing for my husband when I do it, but he can NEVER cum when he w***s in front of me! Very frustrating. He has a mental block that won't allow him to let go in front of me. :/

Any ideas on what I could do to help him relax to where he can let loose for me? I've tried the "watching secretly" thing, and if he knows at all I'm watching, he still can't do it. :(

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Postby versatile woman on Thu Mar 29, 2007 5:44 pm

MarriedMomAgain wrote:Yes, and it is a huge turn on for me. I have no problem climaxing for my husband when I do it, but he can NEVER cum when he w***s in front of me! Very frustrating. He has a mental block that won't allow him to let go in front of me. :/

Any ideas on what I could do to help him relax to where he can let loose for me? I've tried the "watching secretly" thing, and if he knows at all I'm watching, he still can't do it. :(

MM


Try to seduce him to spurt over you. Most men love it. Maybe he can pull back doggie style and come over your buttocks. If he doesn´t feel to be watched he probably will overcome his inhibitions as a first step. And don´t forget to praise his semen. Speak with him and make no stress.

Self stimulation together is quite easy. Have a good time and don´t worry, if it doesn´t work at all. Be happy! :!:

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Postby anna_guest on Thu Mar 29, 2007 5:46 pm

maybe try doing it in the dark, or completely under the covers. see if he has any fantasies that he might like to explore at the same time. maybe he likes to touch you somewhere special or likes you to wear something special for him ... just some suggestions.

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Postby dancer in the dark on Thu Mar 29, 2007 8:41 pm

how about videoing him (without you in the room), then later perhaps watch it together. IF he sees how turned on it makes you perhaps he will be able to let go with you there eventually xx

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Postby loubilou on Sat Mar 31, 2007 9:32 am

I like to tie my gf's wrists together and then straddle her chest finger fkin myself right in her face so she can't touch or taste me then wipe my fingers on her lips............
We enjoy mutual too. Kind of a competion who can come 1st.

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Postby igor on Mon Apr 02, 2007 7:06 pm

We never did it individually but back when we were having sex, we would do each other. I'd kneel next to her with one hand playing with her breasts and the other stroking her clit. Meanwhile she would stroke my C*** gently and rub her thumb on top of my glans. As she would get closer to orgasm, she would raise her hips and stroke me faster, til we'd finally cum together.

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Postby Guest on Mon Apr 02, 2007 8:15 pm

i'd rather F***

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Postby stevensG on Mon Apr 02, 2007 8:21 pm

I mutually masburba ted with my sister's boyfriend several times before. At first we would just hold our own penis, but after awhile, we started holding for each other and even competed to see who had a larger load.

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Postby Noisy Girl on Tue Apr 03, 2007 8:09 am

versatile woman wrote:Try to seduce him to spurt over you. Most men love it.


That's so, SO gay! Only gay guys get excited about spurting cum all over the place. Admit it: you're a gay man, right?

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Re: mutual masterbation

Postby LittleMissNaughty on Tue Apr 10, 2007 7:58 pm

ricfromvic wrote:Do any people here have sessions where you watch each other masterbate at the same time. I have asked my wife to participate but she declined.


Ease her into it.. get her comfy with it.. maybe next time your giving her oral.. have your bottom half where she can see it and play with yourself.. let her see how hard you get watching her enjoy herself.. might make her feel more relaxed and slide her hand down. If she has a toy.. use a toy at the same time.. then you have no hands free.. she may not be able to resist touching herself especially if you tease her to the brink of orgasm so she'll be beggin to come...when she does take over.. make all the right noises of how much ur lovin it... and if you can come on demand.. do it then! The more sexy you make her feel when she;s doin it and the more she see;s you gettin off on it the better.. she'll be kneelin over your face doin it for ya in no time :wink:

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Re: mutual masterbation

Postby Emily B on Fri Apr 13, 2007 7:48 pm

ricfromvic wrote:I have asked my wife to participate but she declined.


Are you sure you're normal? This is really a kind of gay antic, isn't it? A normal woman just likes to be held and ravished by a real man, not larking about squirting sperm on people's heads. I think most girls especially like getting the "horse" from a strong man :D

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Postby pakalolo6969 on Fri Feb 08, 2008 2:04 am

WHATS BETTER THAN YOUR MATE SHOWING YOU HER HOT PINK MEAT BE 4 INDULGING! iTS ALL ABOUT THE "BUILD UP" ANYWAYS, RIGHT?

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