When are you too old to have a huge first wedding?

by **Lhorna** on Sat May 14, 2005 11:01 pm

I am turning 31 next month. I always thought that I would be married by thirty! Should I get in a hurry to find someone? When I do get married, I want to have a big wedding, but I do NOT want to look like the mother in law in my wedding dress. WHEN IS TOO OLD???!!!!!

by **Guest25** on Sun May 15, 2005 12:39 am

31 is old to get married? Since when? My great uncle who is near 70 had a huge wedding. Seriously, you can have WHAT YOU WANT. If you want a big wedding, have it and enjoy it. You deserve it.

by **Guest** on Sun May 15, 2005 12:43 am

And I don't recommend finding someone with the objective to get married. It's not the status of marriage that you want, it's the feelings you get from it. Make sure it's with the right guy. Date a bunch of guys with no big expectations. But do your tests and try and qualify them. Make sure you get the guy you want.

by **Guest** on Sun May 15, 2005 10:53 am

Lhorna wrote:I am turning 31 next month. I always thought that I would be married by thirty! Should I get in a hurry to find someone? When I do get married, I want to have a big wedding, but I do NOT want to look like the mother in law in my wedding dress. WHEN IS TOO OLD???!!!!!

No wonder many marriages don't work out.

by **Guest** on Sun May 15, 2005 10:54 am

So, your main worry is that you will look to old in a wedding dress ?

You got problems ! :roll:

by **clilg** on Sun May 15, 2005 4:18 pm

. wrote:So, your main worry is that you will look to old in a wedding dress ?

You got problems !

why are so so nasty, look maybe you don't have problems and cant listen to others, but if you are not interested in what someone has to say, do not reply instead of being such a t*** about it.
I know what she means! and so do alot of people on this site!
you are obviously a bloke! well i hope so becasue i hope girl;s arn't so horrible.

by **k9trainingbiz** on Sun May 15, 2005 5:01 pm

You are NEVER too old! Weddings aren't about a fairy tale or a dress! They are a celebration of a committed union! I say go for it; an old lady doesn't have to wear a wedding dress out of Bride magazine :roll:

by **casey** on Sun May 15, 2005 7:04 pm

You are not too old you are only 31 but i understand what you mean society expects us to be married around 25 and a few children soon after i believe it is better to marry later on in life career wise see a bit of the world and in your 30's you have a better idea of what you want as opposed to in your 20's.

Please do not worry perhaps socialise more i wish you luck

Casey

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by **k9trainingbiz** on Sun May 15, 2005 7:09 pm

casey wrote:You are not too old you are only 31 but i understand what you mean society expects us to be married around 25 and a few children soon after i believe it is better to marry later on in life career wise see a bit of the world and in your 30's you have a better idea of what you want as opposed to in your 20's.

Please do not worry perhaps socialise more i wish you luck

Casey

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I could not agree more!!!! I think by the time you are around 30 or more, then you have a sense of what you want in life and in a mate. You are more mature and better equipped to handle problems effectively.

Don't worry! At least you didn't make the mistake of marrying early, finding yourself, then realizing you made a mistake, only now you have 2 kids to worry about. Waiting is much better! :wink:

by **Woman** on Sun May 15, 2005 8:58 pm

clilg wrote:
. wrote:So, your main worry is that you will look to old in a wedding dress ?

You got problems !

why are so so nasty, look maybe you don't have problems and cant listen to others, but if you are not interested in what someone has to say, do not reply instead of being such a t*** about it.
I know what she means! and so do alot of people on this site!
you are obviously a bloke! well i hope so becasue i hope girl;s arn't so horrible.

Please don't direct any posts towards me, dolt !

by **Woman** on Sun May 15, 2005 9:00 pm

clilg wrote:you are obviously a bloke! well i hope so becasue i hope girl;s arn't so horrible.

Did you ever see a school from inside ?

xxxx

by **Lhorna** on Sun May 15, 2005 11:26 pm

No, my main worry is not the dress. If you could reread what I wrote, my main problem is my age, and not being married yet. I was looking for honest input, not juvenile antics. So if you have nothing nice to say.......hopefully you know the rest.

by **Guest** on Mon May 16, 2005 1:58 am

Lhorna wrote:No, my main worry is not the dress. If you could reread what I wrote, my main problem is my age, and not being married yet. I was looking for honest input, not juvenile antics. So if you have nothing nice to say.......hopefully you know the rest.

Please, don't you (of all people) go around telling others they are juvenile.OH MY GOD, I'M NOT MARRIED BEFORE 30 !!!!

:roll:

by **Lhorna** on Mon May 16, 2005 2:59 am

Can you not read? The statement was "juvenile antics". By the way, this is a forum, where people are free to post issues that they would like feedback about. Please take your displaced anger to someone else's blog.

by **casey** on Mon May 16, 2005 7:10 am

GUEST LEAVE THIS WOMAN ALONE YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY A PATHETIC TWISTED LOSER SO MUCH SO YOU CANNOT EVEN REGISTER ON THE SITE.

GO BACK UNDER THE ROCK YOU CRAWLED FROM :twisted:

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