Scorpion males are the best match for capricorn females-----scorpions are really passionate....n romantic.....they are full of surprises.....my fiance shawn is a scorpion....n i luv him in all aspects...........
another dic* head. If you happy with your scorpion why don't yopu gop and find better place to be with him, instead of showing your pride here.
Nobody knows you or him here, so don't be such a looser. Go and find better places that can help both of you without getting fight one too often.
At least you don't have to worry if others life is good or bad.
Posted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 2:07 am Post subject: wow... this is great
Yes, I am scorpio male. We are not all bad, us scorpios. Most of us are, however. But not all. In no other sun sign are the differences between the unevolved and the evolved type so apparent. This is the case because scorpio is the sign of extremes; we do not usually fall "somewhere in between". The unfortunate thing is that ALL scorpio men get labeled from the actions of a few; evolved or not. The reason the scorpio male gets such a bad press is because the unevolved ones are the scorpios basing their entire self-worth on the existence of a relationship in their lives. So, they actively seek reltionships out. And when they get one, because they have spent so much time on finding someone else, they have no clue as to the real inner nature of themselves. And this is the real "meaning of life" for the scorpio-to figure out that complicated, extremely emotional, intense, over-bearing, win-at-all-costs personality. And to find balance within. I know this sounds all metaphysical and spiritual, but that is exactly the very nature of the scorpio. We are spiritual. We want to know the motivations and secret workings behind the veil of everything. The problem for most scorpios is that they spend all their time searching for the secrets behind all the outward veils (i.e. relationships, finances, power, etc.) that they quickly forget that the most important one lies inward. And this is where the good ones go--to solve the mystery within. And those scorpios quickly find that with balance comes the releasing of old desires and so-called "necessities", such as the need to have a "relationship". But this does not mean that they do not desire a union of sorts, because they do. But this union is not bound by the physical and "practical" rules of society. Because in all actuality, those "rules" are restrictive and very limiting. In all scorpios lies, very deeply, the understanding of the true "limits" of humanity. Its just that finding and expressing them comes at such a great difficulty.
...can't wait to see how you tear this one up, dear capricorns.
win-at-all-costs personality. And to find balance within. I know this sounds all metaphysical and spiritual, but that is exactly the very nature of the scorpio. We are spiritual. We want to know the motivations and secret workings behind the veil of everything.
So confusing that even every scorpio took one way or another to get rid of the bad habit. Most of you are not evolved, and most of you doesn't try to be evolve. It's very sad. Problem is most of you you still get jelous about everything and you try very hard to covered, but blameing someone in your bad action. So spiritualism and jelousy doesn't fit at all, either you have one or nothing. If most of you are spiritual and still find things to get jelous, than you are the bad one.
Once, every scoprion learn to deal with any kind of thier jelousy, than they will be alowed to go such axtent as spiritual. Other than that you had your much with capricorn woman, that she can always be manipulate you every way up and down.
Capricorn woman are the worst and they had only very good thing in them such as finding the jelous or stupid scorpion male, so that can manipulate at least one human beign.
You scorpio will take much time to learn reality and still cannot accept your own fault.
But hey you are human to you know, so no one will going to judge you unless you get caught. And if not we are not GOD to punish you, the universe one way or anorther will find way to get to you postivly or negativly.
Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2006 1:08 am Post subject: I agree wholeheartedly
Again, I will say I agree wholeheartedly. I wanted to say as much, but my reply would have been so long that I would have put even myself to sleep.
Although the jealousy within a scorpio never truly goes away. Its not possible. The trick is to learn how to express this jealousy in a positive way, by being the first person to laugh at yourself when the green eyed monster rears its ugly head, again and again.
Hypothetically: A scorpio might say to himself, " Ah. There it is again. That jealousy. I am definitely scorpio.... (Chuckle)... Take a deep breath and focus your emotions... Now, is there any real worry? She has talked to other people with a smile and a friendly nod many times before. She has done that with everyone. She is a friendly person. Why in the hell do you think you like her so much? Exactly. So how can you justify within yourself right now being jealous? She is showing to the world what makes her special and unique. She is happy right now. So much so that she is glowing with a bright light. And, guess what, dear green eyed scorpio? She is glowing right now because she wants the world to know how happy she is. And she is with you. This is a compliment to you, dear scorpio. Not an insult. Think about it. Sure, you could probably control and manipulate her into doing what you want. But, doesn't it feel so much better when you let go of the control, don't manipulate, and she does it anyway, out of her own free will? That, dear scorpio, is a far better reward than anything else. Trust that, and trust her. She votes with her feet. And she is going home with you. So stop your fretting and get up and do a little mingling of your own. Its time you showed the world just how happy she makes you."
...but, a common scorpio will rarely get past, "Ah. There it is again."
Posted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 1:50 am Post subject: fight with my scorpio man - what to do....
hi Scorpio male - please help me understand how to regain the trust and affection of my longtime (8 years) Scorpio friend/lover. I am a very sad Taurus woman...we had a fight in August and we haven't talked since...I've left messages, buthe won't return them. He told me not to call him, that he would call me when he was ready. I didn't give him that space because I called him after a week, and then a few message every week or so...partly because I was worried when he was so silent - we are used to talking on the phone every few days. He recently (in May) moved 40 miles from where I live - we hadn't seen each other for 3 years because we lived thousands of miles apart (for most of our relationship). Did he get scared because of the new geographic closeness?? What doI do now? Write a letter? I have done nothing for 2 months. A female friend of him who knows our connection told me that he'll eventually call - and he usually does - we have a strong connection - but it's been so long....I miss him - oh, and did I mention that a month after our fight he got involved with a young immature girl....which to me is his pattern - he runs from his dependency on our connection at times...HELP!!
You cannot understand the scorpio unless you become their slave for a life time. The scorpion are very jelous, and this comes towards from their supperior ego. If anything going to jepordise that ego they cannot stop feeling jelous.
They might tell you you that they are not and they start to count and they keep waiting you to make a same mistake (acually is not a mistake but how they see you) and they try to get revange. The revenge satisfys their ego, and in a way that they try to tell you how is the feeling.
So as long as you follow their foot steep like a DOG, they are is going to no problem in that relationship.
So either you accept that you are human, and live your life happily or become a dog to follow your IDOT SCORPION MALE.
So if you are ot hapy with these idot go and find yourself a CLEVER STRONG LEO MAN, that will make your life wonderful.
Posted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 9:22 pm Post subject: WILL he call me, or do I have to make a move?
Scorpio male, i do love and respect your advice in your last post regarding Scorpio male jealousy...it is so hard for some Scorpios to be the evolved Eagle, and just surrender and not want to dominate every situation and outcome. The scorpio male i mentioned in the above post is very, very gentle, humble, and trusting at times with me - of course I've been loyal to him for the last 7 years, as friend and sometime lover (when we live near each other, or when he's not with someone else). But then he can just instantly and without warning become secretive, and irritable and cold and then withdraw - it seems like this happens just when we are starting to get close - as happened in the situation I mentioned above. If we've had a fight - as I mentioned above - usually we talk after no more than 2-3 weeks, but usually it's because I reached out to him, either through a letter or a few phone messages. Then when we do reconnect I'm always made to feel as if I'm the expendable one, and that i am LUCKY that he has decided to continue our connection, and that even though he has said i am one of 2 people in the world that he is close to, and has stood by him, and that he has told his deepest, darkest secrets to - I am made to feel as if I need to try harder and be even more understanding of him, and not the other way around? Sound typical??!!
OK, Scorpio male, I hope you will respond to my last post - I REALLY need your opinion and advice!!!!!!! I do not have any Scorpio men in my life that I can ask for advice except the one that am estranged from. I LOVE him with ALL MY HEART and SPIRIT, and KNOW he values our connection, and has for 8 years. HOW do I NOW act...in order to help heal this and reconnect with him...is it better to stilll give him his space, after 2 months of no communication? Or should I try to write a nonthreatening, short, but somewhat expressive, honest letter, telling how this has made me feel, and that I miss our connection? Usually he responds to my letters, but this time I'm just not sure what to do......I have ALWAYS let him call all the shots...I know they need to dominate, but do they actually respect you more if you get angry and say NO MORE?? Please, any advice any Scorpio can offer will be extremely appreciated!!
If you have a neoplasm, what you do? You goto doctor and let them to cut those irretable things from your system.
If you feel very very thirsty, what you do? You go and drink water (not a coke, and not beer).
Water is the purest, and the rightes things that you should try. As I said before:
So if you are ot happy with these idot scorpion male then go and find yourself a CLEVER STRONG LEO MAN, that will make your life wonderful.
Now if you insist that coke and beer can do for you than you should also accept the outcome and think for long run and not for short one to satisfy your ego.
So for your question answer will be again:
So if you are ot happy with these idot scorpion male then go and find yourself a CLEVER STRONG LEO MAN, that will make your life wonderful.
Take a postive risk and let the time heels your wound. And next time when you see and man like him you know what you should do.
Be a new person by stadying your innerself, it will take time and it might get many tears but at the end those idots will make you beter person than even you will not dare to imagine.
As a sagi man my self I just meet 6 months ago very beatiful aquarius woman. I wish I had better situstion in my life that I can take her to party this x'mas.
Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 1:57 am Post subject: Sorry this took so long
I guess you could call me a typical scorp, taking this long to reply. Hoping that Green eyes is still looking at this thread, I'll take a shot. Warning: there is the possiblity that this is not what you want to hear and that it may make you upset. Just try to keep an open mind.
I wish I could tell you exactly what to do, Green Eyes. But, the truth is I can't. Every scorpio is an enigma and a law unto himself. Without knowing him personally, I can't say one way or the other for sure. I will tell you to ask yourself (like you haven't already, I know), but keep asking yourself. I think you already know the answer, but because of the pain involved with taking that path, you don't want to believe it... truly believe it.
Though, I will ask you this. Are you in love with HIM, or HOW HE MAKES YOU FEEL? There is a difference. Think about it. Most people, regardless of what they say, don't truly love someone. They just love the anticipation of the emotions the other person is seen to provide. They love the other person as a means to an end. But the very person they claim to love can fall out of favor the next week, simply by not complying with an expectation. And here is where we come to the heart of the matter--expectation.
Why do you hurt and long for him so much? Is it because you love him deeply and with all your heart and spirit, as you say? Or, is it rather because you saw a very high potential for bringing your dreams and most wanted desires into reality through him? Ask yourself .......................................................................................................................................................................................................... Now ask again.............................................................................................................................................................................................................. and again. And keep asking. Even when you think you have the answer for sure, ask again.
If you come to the answer I think you will, then you will soon know exactly what you need to do. And when this happens, I suggest you rent or see somehow the movie, "What the Bleep do we Know?". It will give you at least some comfort. It did for me.
hi, I'm a Capricorn female and from my point of view, Capricorn and Scorpio are not going to work long-term. Scorpios are too jealous and emotional and Capricorns in my own personal experience aren't. We can be quite distant and non-emotional and don't really want to deal with emotional/jealousy issues. I need someone who is practical, down-to-earth, and detached who gets on with things. I don't think that a Scorpio would be able to fulfill this but there again, I haven't been in a long-term relationship with a Scorpio.
Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 3:46 am Post subject: breakup w scorpio
I'm a virgo female - scorpio just broke it off with me about three months ago. Neither of us have been able to seperate from the other - I met him after he was divorced of a long time marriage. We both say we'll we're lucky that most pl never get what we have, but he hasn't ever really gotten to date other ppl so he made a decision that's what he wanted to do and it crushed me more than I evr thought I could be hurt. On the other hand - he used the most sweetest form of manipulation over the last yr -- he would come so close, lvy swty - then go away just when he was going to fall in all the way. We're both like young kids at heart, but we're both 48. The connection and parallel lives we've lived is so close it's like we were dropped out of the heavens by each other. We walk, talk and act the same, . so well...it's been everything anyone could dream of hvn in a relationship. But, hindsite, well now I see the moment he decided he wanted to do something else - he only gave me empty words of what I wanted to hear. Not much advise - but I've gotten over two divorces & been divorced for 14 yrs & nothing has hurt quite like this. I am as intuitive, spiritual and almost physic - so my friends tell me, and I'm an extremely strong person, but I was not able to prevent him from pulling me into that depth that I also go to - I'm a very evolved virgo. He attached to me - He was safe with me and trust me w/his life he said, but trust me I wasn't safe with him. FYI...it was about two yrs and I stayed too long...I so wished I hadn't - my last year now looking back was really not so good as he started seeing other ppl & telling me he was just dating & keep txt n me call n me - it's an extreme emotional rollercoaster that can get even the best of them...Me. Oh, his words were "it's all about me" "on my terms" I didn't realize the impact and depth of those comments so long ago, because it really doesn't matter to a point with me so I now know the selfishness that lies within. - All that...he is an extremely nice sweet man...just don't ever ever want anything from them - especially right out of a divorce. I didn't for a long time wuldn't even get close - no one's ever gotten under my skin. But, this one did & it burns and will take a long while to restore. How's all that. I nvr do this, but I'm hvn that broken heart syndrome off and on. He used ALL his power over me for a couple of years and I nvr missed a beat w/him. I think I scared him a lot of times.
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