I am confused

Bubbles · Guest

I am a young woman, who has a fantastic boyfreind but i am confused as i think i maybe bi , but i dunno how to tell if i am or not.

i love sex with my boyfreind but i enjoy it more when he licks me out and i find myself watching his pornos especially the 2 females and one males or two females on their own. i look at women all the time and think to myself whether they are pretty and attractive.

i often fantasis about what sex with a famle would be like and i've kissed females before, as when i go out, i always end up pulling more females then men- i don't understand why.

please could somebody tell me if i am bi, lesbian or sraitght or even how could i test myself to see if i am?

russk · Guest

I feel the same way too. I think I'm Bi but not sure. I do find women attractive. But I fancy guys as well. I fantasize having sex with women I see on the street. I have the same thing with guys..But how can I approach a girl? I mean sometimes I'd get a female looking at me..then I'd look at them..but not sure what the intention was..I mean I don't want to make a fool of myself! What if SHE is not Bi! How can you tell if a female is BI/lesbian ?! I have never had any sort of serious relationship because I am not sure about what I am..I sometimes think I'm Bi..siometimes I think I'm lesbian..and other times I think I'm straight. I have no definite answer! I don't know what to do!...... Confused

AMY30 · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 15 Sep 2004 Posts: 1

Hi I've been in a relationship with a man for 14 years and I suppose you would say i'm straight!! But given a chance I would love to try it with a women! My sister is bi sexual and is at he most happiest with a women! I thought I must be the only women to feel this way! But i've been reading the message boards and i'm glad to say i'm NORMAL!!! ??? I love having sex with my partner, but also would love to have sex with a women. I say a women knows what a women wants ??? What if i did have sex with a women and i liked it What about my partner?

I'm confused Crying or Very sad

pete · Guest

I am also a young woman in the same problem. My bf and I have been together for only 8/9 months (best friends for years) but I would like to be with another woman just for fun.

I love my bf and know I want to be with him, but I would love to have another woman (by myself, or join us). He's all for someone joining us, but how do you find another woman without making a fool out of yourself? What do you say? And what would it do to our relationship???

pete · Guest

I am also a young woman in the same problem. My bf and I have been together for only 8/9 months (best friends for years) but I would like to be with another woman just for fun.

I love my bf and know I want to be with him, but I would love to have another woman (by myself, or join us). He's all for someone joining us, but how do you find another woman without making a fool out of yourself? What do you say? And what would it do to our relationship???

RubyWax · Guest

I think I might be bi as well but I'm scared to explore this side...I'm scared that I might like it too much and end up a lesbian Sad

I still like guys but just scared of what might happen if I explored my bi curiosity......... Confused

RubyRed · Guest

I think I might be bi as well but I'm scared to explore this side...I'm scared that I might like it too much and end up a lesbian Sad

I still like guys but just scared of what might happen if I explored my bi curiosity......... Confused

alexw · Guest

I think I might be bi as well but I'm scared to explore this side...I'm scared that I might like it too much and end up a lesbian Sad

I still like guys but just scared of what might happen if I explored my bi curiosity......... Confused

RubyWax · Guest

Sorry about the above 3 posts! I kept getting error saying that my post could not be added and that I have to change my user name! What is happening?? I kept clicking 'subit' hoping it would get through and the above is the end result! So sorry! I have no idea whats wrong with this forum. Several have experienced this sort of error messages I believe..

Cate · Guest

I pretend and try to make myself believe I'm a lesbian when I don't get much action from guys. But as soon as a guy wants me then I'm back to my normal straight self. Laughing

So, I guess this does not make me bi or even gay. Its fun to pretend to be a lesbian sometimes Laughing

Guest · Posted: Tue Oct 05, 2004 11:56 am Post subject:

curiousbinature · Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 7:56 pm Post subject: I am confused

Wow! I think that somewhere sometime, someone needs to put together a conference for only women (sorry men), all of us that have these thoughts could go, have a great time dancing, talking, drinking, or whatever they want to do....kind of like a big candle or tupperware party...hee hee...if one thing leads to another and some women end up in others hotel rooms for the evening, great! Or for those that go, and then decide it was not what they were looking for, they go home with an answer also :0)

Anyway, this would give us the chance to participate in something that sounds like a fantasy for all women!

I am not sure there are any women out there that have not fantasiezed about this situation....me included, of course!

I guess bi-sexuality is a very grey area. If your a lesbian, I can't imagine you like guys at all....if your a gay man, I can't imagine you like women at all.

But being hetrosexual for women, does not seem to mean you would not venture out to the other side given the chance once or maybe more!

Anyway, those are my thoughts!

lil*minx · Posted: Fri Oct 15, 2004 3:54 pm Post subject:

I think we need to stop over anyalyzing this issue. If you have a bf or hubby and sleep with women on occasion then you are bi...if you experience being with another woman and decide you don't want to be with a man anymore...then you are a lesbian. If you experience another woman and don't ever want to do it again then you are straight. Of course, this is how I sort it out in my head!

Guest · Posted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 3:10 pm Post subject: Re: stuck in a rutt

BabyJane · Guest

I think it comes down to the gooey at the fork test.

1. If looking at a naked woman makes you gooey. You are gay.

2.If looking at a man makes you gooey. You are striaght.

3.If you get gooey at the fork looking at both then you are bi.
Some days the line you walk, happens to be straight. Other days that line tends to... deviate!

Me? i'm three. Sometimes I wish I was 1 or 2. It would make life less confusing. I was never good at making decisions!