Joined: 21 Aug 2004 Posts: 40 Location: San Diego, California USA
Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2004 11:16 pm Post subject:
I think that it s really uncool that you make a male wear a female product next you might be asking him to take a pregnancy test because his gut is to big and his tits are getting bigger. lol Let him be who he wants to be like him be free let his twins breath and just get himon the Atkins diet lol!!!
What do you do about a boyfriend who goes into women's lingerie shops???
My boyfriend has recently confessed to me that HE goes into women's lingerie shops and asks to try on bra/knickers sets, bikinis, swimsuits, everything - and he stuffs socks in the bra to look like breasts!!
Is this legit what he's doing??? and what's your opinion on it???
Your boyfriend is a crossdresser. He has a fetish for lingerie. You need to talk to him so you understand this better. Theres nothing wrong with liking lingerie since it is only clothes. He is not hurting anyone. As long as the shops he goes into allow him to try the lingerie on, theres no problem there.
The thing to understand is that just because he likes lingerie, that doesn't mean he is gay. His attraction to lingerie will not go away so you have to decide if you can accept this. The way women whose boyfriends are crossdressers handle this varies. Some allow their boyfriends or husbands to dress but only when they aren't around. Others are more accepting and share it with them. If this is something you can accept, than you can use this to your advantage. I'm sure your boyfriend wants to wear lingerie with you so you could take him shopping for his own lingerie. Then you can allow him to wear it when he has been good. Your in control and you can use this to make him more devoted to you. Good luck and let us know what you decide to do.
Posted: Sat Sep 04, 2004 10:04 pm Post subject: Men and lingerie shops
Lisa2 wrote:
Jo
As long as the shops he goes into allow him to try the lingerie on, theres no problem there.
The thing to understand is that just because he likes lingerie, that doesn't mean he is gay. His attraction to lingerie will not go away so you have to decide if you can accept this. The way women whose boyfriends are crossdressers handle this varies. Some allow their boyfriends or husbands to dress but only when they aren't around. Others are more accepting and share it with them. If this is something you can accept, than you can use this to your advantage. I'm sure your boyfriend wants to wear lingerie with you so you could take him shopping for his own lingerie. Then you can allow him to wear it when he has been good. Your in control and you can use this to make him more devoted to you. Good luck and let us know what you decide to do.
Lisa
So any bloke can walk into a lingerie shop and ask to try it on and it's legit??
What an odd world we live in!!
Is this really true???
So, in theory, a guy could go into ASDA, ask to try on a bikini/swimsuit, and then walk out the store wearing it???
"So any bloke can walk into a lingerie shop and ask to try it on and it's legit??"
Yes, it depends on the policy of the shop. But most shops will let men try on bras. You wouldn't buy a bra without trying it on. Bras are hard enough to fit when you know your size.
"So any bloke can walk into a lingerie shop and ask to try it on and it's legit??"
Yes, it depends on the policy of the shop. But most shops will let men try on bras. You wouldn't buy a bra without trying it on. Bras are hard enough to fit when you know your size.
So it's actually legal for a bloke to try on the knickers as well??
What do you mean by 'policy of the shop?'
Stores prohibit Thong try-ons, but trying on knickers over your own is usually acceptable. Some stores prohibit trying on knickers.
As for bras and other lingerie, it is up to the individual store to set the policy. There is usually no objection to a man trying on a bra per se, but sometimes the salesladies are wary of upsetting their women customers already in the fitting rooms. In a department store, men will be sent to try bras on in the men's fitting rooms. In a smaller shop, it may depend on how busy the shop is at the time.
Stores prohibit Thong try-ons, but trying on knickers over your own is usually acceptable. Some stores prohibit trying on knickers.
As for bras and other lingerie, it is up to the individual store to set the policy. There is usually no objection to a man trying on a bra per se, but sometimes the salesladies are wary of upsetting their women customers already in the fitting rooms. In a department store, men will be sent to try bras on in the men's fitting rooms. In a smaller shop, it may depend on how busy the shop is at the time.
So, in theory, you could do it in a small lingerie shop??
How would it upset the women customers??
Tell me the policies of your local shop then Ann....
Stores prohibit Thong try-ons, but trying on knickers over your own is usually acceptable. Some stores prohibit trying on knickers.
As for bras and other lingerie, it is up to the individual store to set the policy. There is usually no objection to a man trying on a bra per se, but sometimes the salesladies are wary of upsetting their women customers already in the fitting rooms. In a department store, men will be sent to try bras on in the men's fitting rooms. In a smaller shop, it may depend on how busy the shop is at the time.
So, in theory, you could do it in a small lingerie shop??
How would it upset the women customers??
Tell me the policies of your local shop then Ann....
"So, in theory, you could do it in a small lingerie shop??
How would it upset the women customers??
Tell me the policies of your local shop then Ann...."
Yes, small lingerie shops will let men try on bras. Some women may not be comfortable using the changing room if they knew a man was also using them.
If you plan to go to a shop and try on a bra, don't waste these people's time unless you are serious about buying a bra.
"So, in theory, you could do it in a small lingerie shop??
How would it upset the women customers??
Tell me the policies of your local shop then Ann...."
Yes, small lingerie shops will let men try on bras. Some women may not be comfortable using the changing room if they knew a man was also using them.
If you plan to go to a shop and try on a bra, don't waste these people's time unless you are serious about buying a bra.
I am being serious.
So a bloke can try on a swimsuit in TJ Hughes??? and it's legit???
We all know about a certain Big Brother contestant wearing Michelle Bass's lingerie...
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Just buy him something pretty and make him wear it. 
