Posted: Tue May 23, 2006 3:01 pm Post subject: Cuckolding scene in the UK
Recently, I've found that I get turned on at my partner humiliating the size of my penis and the thought of her being with well-endowed males. To my surprise, she seems to get a kick out of this as well. She likes the fact that by humiliating me that I'm more under her control and will do as she says.
At the moment, all we do is talk about it, and no doubt it'll stay like that for a while, however, we'd like to know whether there exists any UK based websites on cuckolding. Many of the sites we've looked at are US and just full of ads.
We're also interested in whether any people get turned at this, both men and women, and why, in your case, this is so? We're always looking for new ways to make our cuckolding fun!
Posted: Wed May 31, 2006 11:56 pm Post subject: cuckolding
I also get turned on at this. I'm a man, 8 full inches long, and like being dominant and giving pleasure to a woman in was which lesser endowed men just cant. It's very erotic.
Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 6:04 pm Post subject: Yup, me too...
Hiya,
I too get turned on by the thought of being cuckolded... Although I'm single at the moment...
It should be said that I have general submissive tendencies, so this is one facet of my nature...
For me the thought of my partner having fantastic sex is very pleasing... Seeing her really get into it and loving it...being banged really hard for a long time... I can go for a long time in the right frame of mind, but probably not regularly and I only have average endowment. And it's nice for her to have a change. For me the chastity is a turn on, it would make me want her so bad. The excitement would be incredible.
However, they would have to be decent guys, they would have to respect her for a person who just likes sex, not just a piece of meat...
One person can't give everything to a partner, and nor will they provide everything to us. So in many ways it just makes sense... You wouldn't go to your mate who's into cricket if you fancied talking about football...
It would have to be safe sex, and I would always want her to respect me as I do her... If shes started to take me for granted and started going bare-back I would know that she didn't love and respect me any more and that would be it...
Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 6:46 pm Post subject: Re: Yup, me too...
notastitchonme wrote:
For me the thought of my partner having fantastic sex is very pleasing... Seeing her really get into it and loving it...being banged really hard for a long time...
Wait.... wouldn't it be better to *BE* the one taking her to new heights of exstacy? Not only do you get to enjoy the connection, but you get the pleasant ego boost/reassurement in the process.
Might as well just watch porn otherwise. Makes no sense at all.
Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 8:24 pm Post subject: Re: Yup, me too...
. wrote:
Wait.... wouldn't it be better to *BE* the one taking her to new heights of exstacy? Not only do you get to enjoy the connection, but you get the pleasant ego boost/reassurement in the process.
Might as well just watch porn otherwise. Makes no sense at all.
Yes, I would enjoy being the one to do it too...
However:
1) the excitement from new encoutners can't be duplicated. Like a first date every time!
2) To see her dollied up and looking really sexy is great. I like the enforced chastiy and wanting her so bad.
3) I can't perform like that all the time, but if she had lovers, she could have mind-blowing sex all the time, and I'd want her to be as happy and fulfilled as possible.
4) I like the fact that I don't 'own' her. Most blokes try to supress and control their women, which makes for rotten relationships.
I think it would be a turnon to be the bull. Imagine a couple C***-worshipping you. You basically show up representing the Alpha male and the guy sits back while you properly F*** his wife's brains out. She responds differently to your big penis then she ever did to his. She considers you a real man and he watches on in envy and admiration as you reach places he could only dream about.
I think it would be a turnon to be the bull. Imagine a couple C***-worshipping you. You basically show up representing the Alpha male and the guy sits back while you properly F*** his wife's brains out. She responds differently to your big penis then she ever did to his. She considers you a real man and he watches on in envy and admiration as you reach places he could only dream about.
God what a boost to the ego that would be.
That's what I'm saying, exactly. She gets the shag of her life whenever she wants it.
It's horses for courses... Maybe the hubby makes £100K a year and is clever, and interesting to be with... The big dick guy might be a boring t***, but a good shag.
I have got the same fetish, only the other way around. I like to humiliate my wife with small breasts. I also like to F*** other women with bigger breasts while my wife watches. My wife than looks to the other women with bigger breasts and sees me happy and totally horny, I am having the shag of my life!
Well, as much as I can see the logic in cuckolding as far as pure practicality goes, there is a caveat...
In reality I don't think it works unless both people are totally trusting of eachother - and even then I'm not sure... And, I don't think the humiliation is good for the other-half... It kills the ego and crushes the sense of self esteem... Which is cruel and sick. Just get a divorce and marry someone else!!
It will hurt, but they'll retain some of their dignity...
I do wonder why people want to humiliate someone so much, especially someone they purport to 'love'...