Posted: Sat May 10, 2008 8:21 pm Post subject: Re: Question
glamour boy/girl wrote:
I love wearing my sisters tights and her dress and then finishing it off with some high heels
There is only one strange thing, i get an erection whilst doing it,
Is this a normal thing for m
boys who cross dress/ i am only 14
Please help!!!
As the previous posters said, getting an erection while wearing your sister's clothes is completely normal. If your erection is causing a bulge in your skirt, try wearing a pantygirdle to hide your male parts.
Let him be and he will be alright. I loved putting on my sisters things too when i was that age. i looked up to her so much. One Easter my mom bought me & my sister matching pink Easter dresses and I think I wore it for a whole week straight!
Don't make it such a big deal!
I'm a 16 year old guy who had liked to cross dress a little, but I recently got a girlfriend, she doesn't know I've done that before, anywho, our relationship I have to say the gender roles are reversed, and it actually works out well for us and I haven't dressed that way since.
I think you should let him dress up, I agree with the forbidden fruit thing. and let him get in touch with his feminine side, hes not gay. Crossdressing is not a sign of being gay, it just means he likes more feminine things. He may grow out of it, though I doubt it. but yes, just tell him he can't wear his sisters clothes but tell him if he wants, you will buy him a dress or something. it will make him happy, and will strengthen your bond with him.
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Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2008 6:21 pm Post subject:
. wrote:
I'm a 16 year old guy who had liked to cross dress a little, but I recently got a girlfriend, she doesn't know I've done that before, anywho, our relationship I have to say the gender roles are reversed, and it actually works out well for us and I haven't dressed that way since.
I think you should let him dress up, I agree with the forbidden fruit thing. and let him get in touch with his feminine side, hes not gay. Crossdressing is not a sign of being gay, it just means he likes more feminine things. He may grow out of it, though I doubt it. but yes, just tell him he can't wear his sisters clothes but tell him if he wants, you will buy him a dress or something. it will make him happy, and will strengthen your bond with him.
There is no way you are 16!
In order to be in touch with one's "feminine side" one need not dress up in a females clothes.
i am 14 year old boy and i like the idea of wearing a skirt becuase of the freedom and comfort do i have a problem
The problem is that society will judge you simply because you enjoy women's clothing. We don't have a problem with women who wear men's clothes, but men simply aren't allowed the same freedom. People will give you different explanations for this (and the Colonel will tell you that everyone else's is stupid) but I believe it stems from an historic view that men hold a higher position in society than women - and no man should ever want to lower himself.
You're curious about girls - that's natural at your age, I also was fascinated by my older sister and her life when I was growing up. I loved wearing her clothes when no one was around. Over time I learned more about girls, then about women and came to realize that girls are just as curious about boys.
In a few years you'll be dating and seeing girls as equals and your 'problem' may dissapear.
Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Posts: 6739 Location: Hampshire/Yorkshire
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 5:16 pm Post subject:
. wrote:
a 14 year old boy wrote:
i am 14 year old boy and i like the idea of wearing a skirt becuase of the freedom and comfort do i have a problem
The problem is that society will judge you simply because you enjoy women's clothing. We don't have a problem with women who wear men's clothes, but men simply aren't allowed the same freedom. People will give you different explanations for this (and the Colonel will tell you that everyone else's is stupid) but I believe it stems from an historic view that men hold a higher position in society than women - and no man should ever want to lower himself.
You're curious about girls - that's natural at your age, I also was fascinated by my older sister and her life when I was growing up. I loved wearing her clothes when no one was around. Over time I learned more about girls, then about women and came to realize that girls are just as curious about boys.
In a few years you'll be dating and seeing girls as equals and your 'problem' may dissapear.
The person you've replied to has created so many rubbish threads here.
I do not see what the issue is here at all. So what ! does it matter how old the person is who is interested in the Wearing of female attire. I know that it is an old argument, but Females are able to wear Male attire without issue, and quite honestly some of them look great in it. I wonder whhy there is this hang up about things when the tables are reversed.
My Mother is no longer with us, but made me wear Girls Clothes as a punishment, accompanied I may add with a strap liberally applied to my backside. I have to say that after a Strapping when I was made to keep the skirt, tights, and or dress on, that I did sectretly liked how the clothes felt, smooth, tight and exciting. I have to say it was also embarassing to be dressed this way which is why Mum did it I think. My resistance to this regime usually gave her the excuse she need to strap me aswell. That said what is the issue? they are only Clothes, and I will maintain that it taught me respect for the fairer Sex. People are to hung up on this issue. I will say this in closure, if the little B's that are around today were Strapped in a School Skirt and tights instead of being aloud to run riot, we would have a much better place to live in !!!!!!!!!