2 possesive human beings in my life my 7y.o.kid & my hub

[lovelyakira]

im in the middle of 2 possesive important people in my life . my kid and my 2nd husband. so meaning the kid is not his child but he provides everything for us. he pays everything as in all my expenses and my kids schooling...

we are not living together...we treat ourselves husbands and wife but i only get to be with him 3x in a year everytime he visits manila. 1 whole month every visit. his nice , sweet and i love him dearly. my kid and him gets along quickly but his a strict guy and everytime he demands a rule to my daughter it drives her away (my kid). Like for e.g. during nite time wen we have to sleep already. my husband wants us to have our own privacy. he doesn't want my kid staying with us in one bed. my kid is not use to sleep alone separated to me. for 7 years that is our practise so i dont know wat to do. whom shall i give way between the two. i pity my baby...but i dont want to displease my guy. im a bit bothered. so far its his first vacation last feb til march...he'll come back by december. wats the right thing to do now pls parents specially moms...pls spare me some advice on wats the right attitude on this kind of rivalry...if u may call it

[Guest]

strange to me but do you really want your kid in bed with you...ok when their under 1 but after that you should be bringing some normality back to your life! kid's come along and can dominate so much of your time..you have a life too yes!!!