Thank you, you've made my point brilliantly!
One thing..and one only... it's interesting that you've implied that if I don't find peeing sexually exciting I must have a boring sex life (as far as I was aware, I wasn't talking about sex anyway). I think that single comment says more about you than it does about me.
Again, thank you!!!
Joined: 10 May 2005 Posts: 2305 Location: Newcastle - UK
Posted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 10:03 am Post subject:
Fabiana wrote:
c)If you find my suggestion that some people actually get a thrill out of talking about wetting themselves so offensive and misguided, then perhaps you could tell me what you, as a man (UKGent, I assume that stands for gentleman) is doing on a women's forum, discussing the urinating habits of traffic jam bound ladies?
Joined: 11 Oct 2005 Posts: 9815 Location: Fort Apache
Posted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 10:09 am Post subject:
tecker73 wrote:
Fabiana wrote:
c)If you find my suggestion that some people actually get a thrill out of talking about wetting themselves so offensive and misguided, then perhaps you could tell me what you, as a man (UKGent, I assume that stands for gentleman) is doing on a women's forum, discussing the urinating habits of traffic jam bound ladies?
OK, so Fabiana's never found herself so desperate that shes ended up wetting herself. Good for her. She's either very lucky or like she says just better at'forward planning'. Shes entitled to her views like everyone else, but don't ridicule others just because they did wet themselves or because they use protection to save embarassment.
I'm not too proud to admit I did start to wet myself once on the M25. I was stuck in the outside lane for ages. What would you have done Fabiana? Got out and used the central reservation? I dont think so. I managed to hold on, mostly, but I still ended up with wet knickers and a small wet patch on my trousers which was really emabarrassing. OK with 'forward planning' maybe I wouldnt have had a mug of tea for breakfast that morning, but I don't want to have my weak bladder (if thats what it is)to stop me doing other things in my life (and anyway I'm really ratty if I don't have a mug of tea first thing.) I know not everyone will agree with me although from some of the other postings and from some other ladies I know, there's probably more that do agree than you might think. So again, I'm not too proud to admit I use protective underwear sometimes, if I know I'm likely to be in situation I find difficult. You might sail past the Tena products in Sainsburys, Fabiana, but theres plenty of women including of around my age (26) who dont, and they find them a help.
I'm not asking anyone else to agree with me. I'm just saying I find them useful for certain situations. If having this discussion means one other person feels less bad about herself becuase she wet herself, because she knows others have been in the same position, then I think its been worth sharing it. Even if just one other person feels less self-conscious about buying and wearing Tena or any other brands like the ones I use, and finds it spares her embarassment about wetting herself then I'm pleased i might have helped. I don't care if Fabiana wants to call me 'a few sandwiches short of a picnic', but someone else might feel that if she's going to be ridiculed then she'll probably just suffer in silence or be too embarrassed to go out to the pub and have a few drinks and a laugh with her mates, or will avoid situations like driving at rush hour etc.
I just say each to their own. If i've offended anyone just by talking about it, then I'm sorry, but I thought thats what this sort of Board is for. I know most people will think wearing a pad or a disposable diaper is not the right solution for them. I'm not stupid. Many people may be quite uncomfortable with the idea. Thats fine. But all I'm saying is I'm comfortable with it, one of my mates (female) is cool with it because she sometimes wears one too, my boyfriend's cool with it. So i don't think it deserves being insulted by Fabiana even if she doesn't like it. Sorry. Rant over.
c)If you find my suggestion that some people actually get a thrill out of talking about wetting themselves so offensive and misguided, then perhaps you could tell me what you, as a man (UKGent, I assume that stands for gentleman) is doing on a women's forum, discussing the urinating habits of traffic jam bound ladies?
Do you have to be female to be on here????
Forum nazis.
If we were true forum nazis, you would be gone by now.
OK, so Fabiana's never found herself so desperate that shes ended up wetting herself. Good for her. She's either very lucky or like she says just better at'forward planning'. Shes entitled to her views like everyone else, but don't ridicule others just because they did wet themselves or because they use protection to save embarassment.
I'm not too proud to admit I did start to wet myself once on the M25. I was stuck in the outside lane for ages. What would you have done Fabiana? Got out and used the central reservation? I dont think so. I managed to hold on, mostly, but I still ended up with wet <A HREF="http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/">knickers</A> and a small wet patch on my trousers which was really emabarrassing. OK with 'forward planning' maybe I wouldnt have had a mug of tea for breakfast that morning, but I don't want to have my weak bladder (if thats what it is)to stop me doing other things in my life (and anyway I'm really ratty if I don't have a mug of tea first thing.) I know not everyone will agree with me although from some of the other postings and from some other ladies I know, there's probably more that do agree than you might think. So again, I'm not too proud to admit I use protective underwear sometimes, if I know I'm likely to be in situation I find difficult. You might sail past the Tena products in Sainsburys, Fabiana, but theres plenty of women including of around my age (26) who dont, and they find them a help.
I'm not asking anyone else to agree with me. I'm just saying I find them useful for certain situations. If having this discussion means one other person feels less bad about herself becuase she wet herself, because she knows others have been in the same position, then I think its been worth sharing it. Even if just one other person feels less self-conscious about buying and wearing Tena or any other brands like the ones I use, and finds it spares her embarassment about wetting herself then I'm pleased i might have helped. I don't care if Fabiana wants to call me 'a few sandwiches short of a picnic', but someone else might feel that if she's going to be ridiculed then she'll probably just suffer in silence or be too embarrassed to go out to the pub and have a few drinks and a laugh with her mates, or will avoid situations like driving at rush hour etc.
I just say each to their own. If i've offended anyone just by talking about it, then I'm sorry, but I thought thats what this sort of Board is for. I know most people will think wearing a pad or a disposable diaper is not the right solution for them. I'm not stupid. Many people may be quite uncomfortable with the idea. Thats fine. But all I'm saying is I'm comfortable with it, one of my mates (female) is cool with it because she sometimes wears one too, my boyfriend's cool with it. So i don't think it deserves being insulted by Fabiana even if she doesn't like it. Sorry. Rant over.
You're missing Fabiana's point, all these pee pee'rs in the car, can fix the solution by wearing a diaper or getting pills that control bladder urges. Don't let it soak in your car seat on a regular basis, or be ashamed to pull over ! Damn people haven't we progressed beyond the potty stage yet? But some of these people are really implying that they have a sexual fetish for pee and just need to come out and say it already.
I cannot believe you whackos!!! As a 29 year old male, often caught in traffic jams, or often driving behind some slow driver who would be lapped by an old lady with a walker, I have made one huge decision to control my urinary problems!!! When I first started driving, what I was inclined to do, was just step out of my car on the road, unzip, and let it flow on the street, but I sustained an injury two times for doing that!!! The first time, a truck ran over my urinary instrument, cause it is so huge, and my tool became bruised for a few weeks, causing myself to feel pain if i felt sexual!!! After this happened, did not think anything of it, just figured it was an isolated thing that would not happen again!!! Then a couple years later, same thing, I really had to go, was stuck on the road in a traffic jam, so again, I stepped out of the car as I did the first time!!! Guess what happened??? No, not the same thing, this time as I stepped out, the traffic, MOVED, so as I was relieving myself, the passing car next to me moved!!! The stupid ass who was driving, did NOT close the lid of the gas tank, so my penis became stuck in the hole that gas is shot into the gas tank!!! As you can expect, I suffered heavy duty damage to my penis, causing myself to endure a good 6 months of physical therapy, not to mention the treatment for road rash suffered by the dragging of my body along the concrete!!! After that second time, I have decided I need to change my peeing habits in traffic jams, but one thing I could not use, is a diaper, cause my "instrument" is too thick and long, and no diaper can contain it!!! So I came up with the only proper choice that seemed the best way to do thing!!! I now, ALWAYS drive with a woman in my car, therefore, if I am ever caught in a traffic jam, with the need to pee, she can now bend over from the passenger seat, suck the urine from my hose, and then spit it out the window!!! I find this works well, and with the right woman (usually ugly with cold sores), there is never going to be a problem in future motorway situations of urinary hell!!!!! I respect your replies!!!
I can appreciate the embarrassment for women. A girlfriend of mine was bursting for a pee as we drove home from a wedding. We got caught up in a horrrendous traffic jam about ten miles north of Birmingham on the M6 last Monday week. My girlfriend is normally very assured and composed but she was getting frantic. We hadn't moved more than fifty yards in thirty minutes. Claire finally said that she would have to open the door and go as she was on the verge of wetting her knickers. We were on the inside lane. I had to get out as well and shield her as she was very visible to the drivers behind us.
She quickly undid her trousers and lowered her tights and knickers and unleashed an almighty flood. Her embarrassment disappeared in the context of her desperation and need to ger her bum exposed to allow her to have a wee. She kept dribbling on and eventually pulled up her knickers and dived back into the car.
No further word was said by her for the rest of the journey until we arrived back in Manchester. I know that she was mortified by the thought of having to take such extreme action. I think it is the need to remove so many items of clothing and basically expose your bum that makes it difficult. For us men, it is far easier to hide what you are doing when having a pee.
Posted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 5:03 pm Post subject: Wetting
We have all been in situations where we have needed the toilet. Car journeys o going out are clssics. But why dont you just wait like the rest of us. Yes it is uncomfortable to be on a car journey and be needing to relive yourself. But just bare with the discomfort and find a service station. Save all the money you waste on disposable pads or valeting of your car.
If people enjoy urinating for sexual fun / relief that all and well but make out they cant help it - its the sort of things 6 years olds do at school.
[quote]Female Desperation is the right term for that site, it's completely tasteless and pure trash. Nothing at all thought provoking. Some members here will blend in perfectly over there, better yet why don't they go over there instead of trying to sink this place down in the gutter![/quote]
That sort of thing's admittedly not to everyone's taste but looking at it objectively I'd say it was no worse than S & M or bondage.
Posted: Sat Feb 11, 2006 4:38 am Post subject: wet knickers
Fabiana wrote:
Let me enlighten you on a few points then....
a) I would rather lose points on my licence, and or be arrested rather than pee in my
and own car (or anyone else's car for that matter)
b) 'A natural occurrence'? Yes, to urinate is indeed natural, can you tell me though how come I've never felt the need to wet myself if this is so natural? Perhaps what you are suggesting is that everyone here is normal, and that I am the odd one out? Pray tell.
c)If you find my suggestion that some people actually get a thrill out of talking about wetting themselves so offensive and misguided, then perhaps you could tell me what you, as a man (UKGent, I assume that stands for gentleman) is doing on a women's forum, discussing the urinating habits of traffic jam bound ladies?
d) ANYONE who could suggest that leaving the house wearing a diaper/nappy in case of emergency is 'normal' is in fact, to coin a non medical term ...a few sandwiches short of a picnic. You cannot tell me that most people have had that thought enter their minds on any given day of the year, traffic jam or no traffic jam. I certainly sail merrily past the 'tena lady' aisle in the supermarket without giving it a second thought.
e)I don't think it's so narrow minded to suggest getting out and peeing or perhaps simply a little more forward planning (not involving diapers/nappies). It's narrow minded perhaps to think that a bare cheek could cause such outrage amongst other motorists.
With that, I rest my case, and I thank you for your kind attention.
Hi Fabiana,
I'm afraid I have to agree with one of the above posts.
As a sales rep,I do 80 000 miles a year and have been stuck in desperate situations.
I too use adult nappies for travel and,even if not used at least make me feel safer and more comfy.
A practical solution to an awkward problem,and better than wet knickers/tights!
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