Posted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 7:58 pm Post subject: boyfriends mother driving me crazy
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years.. we live together, 2 hours away from his mother, and have a 2 month year old baby together.. his mother filed his income tax this year for him. he was to recieve over 700.00; she gave him 200.00, asked if she could have 200.00 and promised to send the other 300.00 ASAP.. to make a long story short, she spent the rest of the money without even talking to him about it (basically she stole it) and then tried to justify it by saying she had hit hard times. she has been out of work for almost a year and a half she has nothing wrong with her and has been getting help from her own mother, an ex-husband, and an ex-boyfriend who is giving her 300.00 every month. she had no desire to get her butt up and get a job but instead feels that she deserved the rest of his money because she allowed him to stay in her house for two more years after he turned 18. nevermind the fact that he has his own family now.. when it all happened he was okay with it because she gave him her famous sad story about being depressed and how pitiful her life was.. as it was he ended up telling her she didn't have to pay it back to him.. i however was not going to let her take advantage and manipulate him in such a way and made him tell her that she was going to pay all of it back.. in return now she is making him feel bad saying he's sticking up for me, and turning away from his family and her.. she also has said that she no longer likes me and will not be able to stand being around me anymore.. was i wrong for sticking up for my baby and not letting her screw us over? what do i do? i'm fed up with her.. i really am.. please e-mail comments to partydiva1999@yahoo.com thank you