Joined: 10 Feb 2004 Posts: 25 Location: Manchester
Posted: Tue Feb 10, 2004 12:18 pm Post subject:
When you lose a baby it can be a very difficult time, so tread carefully in case she is telling the truth. The only way you can resolve this is to get your friend to take her to a clinic, and go into the consultancy room with her. Tell him to play the caring partner role, and then he will know for sure. If she refuses this to him, I would be suspicious - the baby was as much his as hers. Or maybe he can talk to the nurse she sees afterwards - if the nurse has no idea what he is talknig about, she is probably fibbing. Make sure he is careful before he knows for sure though - my friend suffered a miscarriage and it devaststaed her for months - luckily she has a lovely son now, but she still remembers her first baby.