Tattoo

Totalian · Guest

One of my bridemaids, the groom's sister, just got a new tattoo on the back of her neck, after we asked her to be in our wedding. Our ceremony will be taking place in a church, and I do not feel displaying a tattoo she has very short hair in church is appropriate. This bridesmaid and I aren't exactly what you would call close. I really feel like her having the tattoo showing at our ceremony, after all it is our day, would be disrespectful. What should I do, tell her I feel like telling her that I am getting another maid?

Linda191 · Guest

She is either inconsiderate or just doesn't care, the trouble is you can not expect someone to put thier life on hold just for your wedding, I would ask here to use a concealling cream during the service at the reception who cares anyway

Fatlisa · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 1367

Don't let it ruin your day, it is just a tattoo. Who cares noone will be looking at it and thinking how disrespectful.

I think you are making a big deal out of nothing.

Totalian · Guest

I may be over but you know how it is this is my big day and I just don't want anything to go wrong. I think I am after perfection.

Fatlisa · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 1367

Well it is her body and she can do what she likes to it. Could she wear a choker or big necklace or even a scarf sort of thing to cover it up.

MissJackie23 · Guest

FRECKELMANIA · Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2005 10:42 am Post subject:

if you and she arent close why is she a brides maid? anyway get a shoulder wrap for all your brides maids - you cant dicriminate against her because she hasnt put her life on hold for your wedding - it ay be your day but the people who are there make it your day. Forget about it.

When i got married i didnt have any bridesmaids as i didnt want my friends not to be able to be with their own partners on the day - i know what it is like when my hsband is always best man i am on my own for the ceromony and diner i hate it. So stop worrying and have a great day

louise1975 · Posted: Sat Feb 05, 2005 8:46 pm Post subject:

there are some amazing coverage make ups available to cover tattoos try suggesting dermablend to her(available @ boots or leading pharmacies), i used it for my wedding to cover up a tattoo on the top of my arm once its set it will last the day. dont let it spoil your big day though

Tattoo Hater · Guest

dakotatheonme · Guest

Ok here is throught. Some dreses has
somethinmg to go along with. It can drap over the shoulder. Or around the neck. Try that and good luck!
Wink

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sweet bride · Guest

hi i think you can say to her that you don't like that and its your day and you want everything is oky i said that because im like you i want everything in my wedding be right even if it is very small

WhiteTrash · Posted: Sat Jul 01, 2006 5:37 pm Post subject:

I don't think she needs advice after two years!