Should i stay or go?

[minniekelzz87]

Im 18 and he is 30 age isnt the issue.

I met my man 8 months ago but he was in a 4 year relationship. He was seeing me on the quiet. 4 months ago his girlfriend left him but not as a result of us, because she was unhappy in their relationship.

Since then, we have been great, met my family, met his everything has been fine.

At first it was hard as he was sad because of his 4year relationship over and he was and i suppose still in love with his ex.

Up until now we have been inseperable. He has always been truthful with me and tells me when he speaks to her but all the do is argue. Up until last week she wanted nothing to do with him, now she has text him asking to go out for a drink. He has excepted. They were on the phone for 40mins yesturday while i was there.

I feel she only wants to get involved as he told her last week he is seeing someone - me.

I dont know where this leaves us. We are supposed to be going away in a few months and i asked him if he wanted to hold back booking it to see what hapens with him and his ex. He says he still wants to book it and im reading to much into it.

I'm so confused. I love him and know he doesnt love me but i know he has feelings for me. I dont want to be without him. I dont know what to do!

[xr2bird]

Sounds like a tricky situation. You really think about why he accepted to go for a drink with his ex. Do you really want to be in a relationship with him again where there are two of you???? Really think before you go away

[minniekelzz87]

I definatly would leave if he got back into a relationship with her. i just dont know whether i should hang about to se what the final decision should be.

He has been fine with me since, and hasnt mentioned her yet. Fingers crossed.

I just hope she's not just getting in contact because he know he is seeing someone, they get back together and she leaves again. Im so in love with him i'm just so lost.

Thank you for your reply