How do I win my ex fiancee's heart back?

[justinjd]

Hello, I just wanted to come on here to find a way to get my ex fiancee back I love her so much she means the world to me, now I know we had only been together for about a month and a half but when we were together there was nothing that could have stopped us, when she was with me I can tell she was genuinly happy, because we never fought, then this is where the real fun begins her ex shows up and hes very abusive I forgot to mention she has 2 wonderfull/beautiful boys aged 1 and 3, and her ex is the father he is someone I cant stand at all, now that we broke up it was completely her fault that we broke up because she heard rumors that I was cheating on her but thats not the case I told her I'm not a cheater and I had my friend who is a guy mind you I''m not gay so no ideas lol but no I had him back me up because I stayed at his place the night that I supposedly cheated on her so then she heard that so she broke off our engagement and now ever since we broke up she has been spending alot of time with her ex(the father of her kids) I really think shes confused about what she wants but she has told me numorous times that she doesnt love him anymore but now I am starting to wonder because hes been spending the night with her for the past week and a half well except for 2 nights ago I got to spend with her.
And the lates fight I dont know if we can come back from because I got upset because he was spending the night with her the night I was suppose to this was the night after the night I got to spend with her and I felt like she was making excuses not to see me, now I know her schedual now what should I do she takes her kids to an early years center which isnt too far from where I live should I go there on friday to meet up with her to talk about things or should I wait, mind you if I wait I'd be affraid she wouldnt want me back.
Heres the biggest thing with our former relationship I was really good to her kids I pretty much stepped up as a possitive male role model to them and they adore me still, what do I do I really miss sleeping beside her in her bed I love it its the best sleep I ever get is when I'm with her, I feel like I belong there with her I have never felt so connected to anyone like I connect so well with her
What Should I Do?

[Verve]

What Should I Do? Move on!

Consider yourself lucky..... a month and a half you were still in the bubbly love stage. Your a rebound.... no future. Plus you don't want any baby daddy drama in your life.

Now get out there and find a new woman....

[Guest]

thats the thing I wasnt a rebound because before we got together she wasnt with him for 2 years and then he just shows up when he found out we were together and he's very controlling too.
you know that saying about some guys that "If I can't have you noone will" well thats him

[Verve]

ex fiancee + only been together for about a month and a half = what the f*ck!

Dude!!!! Are you for real!

[justinjd]

yes I am for real we both talked about it and discussed if it was too fast and we both agreed it wasnt

[Verve]

How old are you?

Didn't you find it odd that you had a discussion about it.... Didn't that tell you anything.....

If there are any men who read this post please leave a comment. This guy really needs help from a man with knowledge. Please give your input. Tell him he’s “unstable” for wanting to throw his life away in lets say 45 days. Save him from himself…

[justinjd]

you dont get it she means the world to me and when we were together she was really happy and she loved being with me

[justinjd]

and look I need advise on how to get her back not advise on when to give up

[Verve]

Advice on getting her back........

Shower her with your love. Through flowers, diamonds, poetry and letters of love. Beg on hand and knees that you can't live without her in your life. Best Wishes.

[LayDown!]