Usquanigo wrote:. wrote:@ Usquanigo
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No daughter of mine would ever be victimized like that. Just like no plane I'm on will ever be hijacked (so long as I'm alive lol).
Sadly, your daughter is just as likely to be one of the 1/3 women sexually assaulted as anyone else, and her daddy is unlikely to provide the knowledge that will protect her as he doeesn't understand the dynamic of rape. But you don't want to understand it, so just keep telling her she can tell a rapist by the way he looks, the she can always tell when a rape will be able to occur, rapists look like criminals, it couldn't happen to her, rape victims are at fault for not defending themselves, women cry rape, women are asking for it by the way they dress, and that if a person doesn't fight back it wasn't really rape, and all the other boring misconceptions people take comfort in unless they are confronted with it in real life. Blah blah zzzzzzzzzzzzz
You're right about on thing, I'm wasting my time trying to reason with you. Wilful ignorance admits of no reason.
Holy crap, you sure don't disappoint. I knew you wouldn't - your'e transparent and too easy. lol You think so highly of yourself and your views that you have to hide behind being a "guest" and resort to insults and temper tantrums. This is simply awesome.
People have pumped so full of victim mentality and notions of entitlement that you simply can't comprehend the concept of personal responsiblity of any sort, let alone self defense. But it doesn't stop with just self defense, you aren't forced to do ANYthing for yourself, and that's why you're having such a hard time with simple logic here.
Preventing and HELPING are to totally different notions. See, you got all pissed off because I told you flat out, if you don't even so much as TRY to defend yourself (freezing is NOT defense), then you AID the criminal. I know you hate it, I know it gets your panties all in a bunch, you can spare us the drama. The thing is, you don't HAVE to like that anymore than water being wet - your likes and wants won't change things.
Furthermore, you got so in a huff that you couldn't even read what was in front of you - because AIDING (through lack of resistance) has NOTHING to do with triggering or causing said event.
So you pulled everything completely out of your ass. Which is where the people who pumped you so full of all that nonsense that you are frothing at the mouth about, also came from.
Fight. If you give up, that's on you, pray for help but don't expect it. It's like they say, "call on god, but row away from the rocks". I don't care what happens to you, how badly you got beat up or assaulted, I expect you to fight every inch of the way tooth and nail. If not, you're weak and aided in the 'crime'.
And I can't stop laughing at this idea of surprise rape. You're just walking along the street, minding your own buisness, next thing you know you feel a breeze, and find someone balls deep in your kitty.
You can get trained. You can arm yourself. If you don't prepare yourself, your predicament is on you, you chose to take the chance and may end up paying for it. Just like going to school without your books, paper, or pencils - that's not the schools fault, YOU were un-prepared.
But wait, I know I have to spell this out for you because you'll be too busy hyperventilating. lol There's always someone better, sometimes S*** happens and you get extremely unlucky. But at least you were *prepared* and were in a position to actually DO something about it, if and when an opportunity opened up.
The Gazelle don't rely on storms or stampeding elephants to chase the lions off - they *run like hell* and do everything in their power to not be eaten. Nature penalizes weakness. You wish to excuse it. And therein lies your whole issue. (well that and you may be having your visitor as well right now - or have grown bitter from men seeing you for what you really are and not sticking around. lol)
Using that example, just to whip this dead horse a LITTLE bit more. The Gazelle that freezes and gets eaten, he aided the lion, so he does share some of the blame for his fate. The Gazelle that was just in the wrong place, or tripped, but ran his ass off, but still got caught and eaten, it's not his fault at all, he just got a raw deal, but he tried like hell. In another place, another time, he'd have gotten away and survived.
I can't wait to see what the response will be next - to see how badly things are misunderstood, twisted, and mis-represented. You've brashly claimed you're "wasting your time" because I am not wearing the blinders you are. Normal people would therefore stop. You won't, will you? lol No, this thread has several pages of life left in it. I may be scarce over the weekend, but don't fret, I'll be back on tuesday for a laugh. I'm confident you won't disappoint me.
the guest doesn't come across as if she is having a tantrum, you seem more riled up than her.
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