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somechick89 FemaleFirst Newbie (20+ posts)
Joined: 19 Apr 2006 Posts: 21 Location: canada
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 1:52 am Post subject: using sex appeal to get your way |
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when have you used sex appeal to get your way and what was the most bold? I've shown cleavage heavily to get what I wanted on many occasions, especially to get past service people seeking I.D. when i was underage. the most skanky thing i did back then was moan in a bartenders ear to get him to give me liquor :S . Now i just use my femininity to get my way...and sometimes some cleavage or leg  |
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honbuns FemaleFirst Senior Member (500+ Posts)

Joined: 10 Apr 2008 Posts: 802
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:28 am Post subject: |
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As a man I must say that I dont approve of this on a couple of levels, firstly the women who try to use their sexuality in this way I think do their gender a diservice and the same is true of the men who allow themselves to be influenced in such a way.
A girl who used to work for me used to do this all the time and even managed to avoid a speeding ticket in this way. Used to really get on my nerves but suppose the most blame must go to the men who encourage such behaviour.
Rant over and hopefully have not offended anyone. |
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Verve FemaleFirst Guru
Joined: 06 Jun 2005 Posts: 5497 Location: USA
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Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 4:40 am Post subject: |
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As a man I must say that I dont approve of this on a couple of levels, firstly the women who try to use their sexuality in this way I think do their gender a diservice and the same is true of the men who allow themselves to be influenced in such a way.
A girl who used to work for me used to do this all the time and even managed to avoid a speeding ticket in this way. Used to really get on my nerves but suppose the most blame must go to the men who encourage such behaviour.
Rant over and hopefully have not offended anyone. |
Wow, very interesting point of view. I'm shocked and pleased you feel that way about the matter.
I’ve used it in my teens early 20’s. I have no need to do it now for some reason I don’t need it. Men are just attracted to legs, ass and tits. Eye contact works now more than my body. The stare is all you need. The issue for me with sex appeal is that it can be dangerous. You have to choose wisely. |
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honbuns FemaleFirst Senior Member (500+ Posts)

Joined: 10 Apr 2008 Posts: 802
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Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 8:24 am Post subject: |
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| Interested that you are shocked and pleased. Why are you shocked though? |
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Verve FemaleFirst Guru
Joined: 06 Jun 2005 Posts: 5497 Location: USA
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| I was just taken aback. Most men to me seem to relish in that sort of thing. They can’t wait to see breasts. It's basically my prejudice towards men I guess. It's cool that you were so direct and honest. |
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Captain FemaleFirst Guru

Joined: 22 Sep 2005 Posts: 5130 Location: New Zealand
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Posted: Fri May 23, 2008 4:08 am Post subject: |
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As a man I must say that I dont approve of this on a couple of levels, firstly the women who try to use their sexuality in this way I think do their gender a diservice and the same is true of the men who allow themselves to be influenced in such a way.
A girl who used to work for me used to do this all the time and even managed to avoid a speeding ticket in this way. Used to really get on my nerves but suppose the most blame must go to the men who encourage such behaviour.
Rant over and hopefully have not offended anyone. |
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 12:23 am Post subject: |
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| I've never used my looks, because I was surrounded by insecure women who made me feel S*** for being skinnier and better looking than them, but I'm using them now and to hell with what anyone thinks. |
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