how do i get over the married man i love?

[Guest]

I've been in love with a married man for five years now. He's the most sweet, sensitive, thoughtful, kind, caring and gentle man I've ever met. He has grown up kids. As infatuated as I've been, I would never lay a finger on someone who was taken. Recently he moved away, leaving another woman pregnant with his child, and having been involved with at least one other.

As much as I know it's his wife who needs him, my heart feels like it's breaking.

How do I get over him?

[Guest]

re-read your post
there is enough in there about that man to put you off him for life
open your eyes-it will help.

[noodles]

I've been in love with a married man for five years now. He's the most sweet, sensitive, thoughtful, kind, caring and gentle man I've ever met. He has grown up kids. As infatuated as I've been, I would never lay a finger on someone who was taken. Recently he moved away, leaving another woman pregnant with his child, and having been involved with at least one other.

As much as I know it's his wife who needs him, my heart feels like it's breaking.

How do I get over him?

I dont think you should get over him. I think you should obsess over him for the rest of your life.

[The Colonel]

I've been in love with a married man for five years now. He's the most sweet, sensitive, thoughtful, kind, caring and gentle man I've ever met. He has grown up kids. As infatuated as I've been, I would never lay a finger on someone who was taken. Recently he moved away, leaving another woman pregnant with his child, and having been involved with at least one other.

As much as I know it's his wife who needs him, my heart feels like it's breaking.

How do I get over him?

It should be easy. The guy is evidently a tosser.

[Death From Above 1993]

I've been in love with a married man for five years now. He's the most sweet, sensitive, thoughtful, kind, caring and gentle man I've ever met. He has grown up kids. As infatuated as I've been, I would never lay a finger on someone who was taken. Recently he moved away, leaving another woman pregnant with his child, and having been involved with at least one other.

As much as I know it's his wife who needs him, my heart feels like it's breaking.

How do I get over him?

He might be a nice guy when it suits, but he sounds like a crazy fool underneath! Get someone genuine.

[Guest]

It's as easy or hard as accepting you've fallen in love with the wrong person.

[MissCharlie]

Fall in love with some-one else

Cx

[jinjin]

It should be easy. When you are at bottom there is no where else to go except up. Go out and find someone better.

[Guest]

His wife is a wonderful woman and she's standing by him. And everyone who knows him seems to think he's wonderful still. Some people will always land on their feet.

[Guest]

His wife is a wonderful woman and she's standing by him. And everyone who knows him seems to think he's wonderful still. Some people will always land on their feet.

It by no means indicates he has landed on his feet. If people are accommodating his behaviour, they are just as retarded as him.

[Guest]

I don't know. Maybe people are muted in their criticisms of him ,because he's a vicar.

[DanMc]

I don't know. Maybe people are muted in their criticisms of him ,because he's a vicar.

I'm not feeling muted right now.
You say he got someone else pregnant broke your heart then moved away and he's a vicar, in which case presumably he'll be pontificating and preaching to people about how they should live their lives this Sunday.
If that's the case he's also a bloody hypocrite.

[Guest]

Vicars do this? Vicars get women pregnant and run off? WTF?

[Guest]

Well, I know one who did. He's probably doing something similar somewhere else by now. The things you learn!

[Guest]

I've been in love with a married man for five years now. He's the most sweet, sensitive, thoughtful, kind, caring and gentle man I've ever met. He has grown up kids. As infatuated as I've been, I would never lay a finger on someone who was taken. Recently he moved away, leaving another woman pregnant with his child, and having been involved with at least one other.

As much as I know it's his wife who needs him, my heart feels like it's breaking.

How do I get over him?

get over him by praying for forgiveness at trying to wreck someones marriage. Write an apology to the woman you have wronged explaining you are a mutt who sleeps with married men.